I'm due in Feb with number 3. My boys have just turned 4yrs and 14 months. I don't think anyone can answer this for you. Sometimes I worry about how hectic it will be with 3. I'm 35 so didn't have a long time to decide. Once pregnant I'm for the most part super excited and I'm sure things will be just fine
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16-08-2015 19:09 #101
16-08-2015 19:28 #102Member
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We were in a very similar position with 2 children & 2 embies left in the freezer. I felt like I couldn't just let them go to waste & I liked the thought of having 3 children. So once DS2 was nearing 2 we decided to give them a go & were happy with whichever way the FET's went (if it didn't work then we were completely happy as a family of 4, however if it did, then we would be happy as a family of 5). The first FET was a BFN, so then we transferred our last & it was a BFP. Number 3 will be here later in the year & we are both so happy with our decision (and thankful we have none left in the freezer, as I'd be tempted to go again! Hehe).
If I were you I would definitely go for it & just let fate decide! Best of luck! Xx
16-08-2015 20:24 #103
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16-08-2015 21:00 #106
If you want to go with baby no.3 go for it. I am almost 11 weeks pregnant with my third but It has been quite a big break between no. 2 and this one. My youngest will be 9 when this one is born. I must admit this bubs was unplanned but still very much wanted after the shock subsided. Don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't.
17-08-2015 11:19 #107Member
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27-07-2016 13:10 #109
I haven't been around BH much lately but thought I'd update this...
So I'm currently leaning towards going for a third. But it's terrifying! And I'm not 100% sure. DH is actually now thinking we're done so we're not on the same page yet.
I'm just worried about not coping with 3 kids. I would absolutely love to be pregnant again and have a baby, but maybe I'm getting a bit old for this!
27-07-2016 18:45 #110
We have started 'trying' for our 3rd, it took ages to convince DH but he's there now... My thinking with having 3 is I know it will be hard & there will be times where I'm totally pulling my hair out but I want a biggish family around us when we're older, to me that's what life is about so it's short term pain for a lifetime of gain! But that's us & our situation, I'd actually like 4 kids but I'm 35 now & DH is stretching to 3 for me so I'm compromising for him. I can't wait to be pregnant again!
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