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    I will admit that as a person with a non-addictive personality i struggle with the idea of drug users not having a choice. I believe everyone has a choice, for me, its dont shove it down your gob. What to quit smoking? Dont buy them. Want to quit drinking? Dont drink.

    I cant get past that these men had a choice. In fact they made four choices, they were just unlucky that Rush intervened the last time. I believe they would have done it again if they didnt get caught. They were in it for an easy pay day.

    In saying that, before this goes around in circles again, i have no wish for them to die. I think that is too full on. Its just that i know many countries practise it so it's no surprise. Women are stoned publicly in some countries for suspicion of being a witch, or looking at someone their husband doesnt like. Its these innocent cases that get my back up the most. I find it hard to have trust/forgiveness/compassion for criminals no matter what level.

    I have violent drug addicts in my family and i walked away from them all, and wouldnt speak a word to them if i saw them in the street. Heartless? Maybe. But after seeing them in jail time and time again for attacking innocent people for money for their fix you get pretty jaded towards 'rehabilitation'. They get out of jail and go straight home to steal someone elses property to sell... and they have been off drugs for months in jail-its hard for me to see that as the addiction as they would have weaned. Their faces are literally melting off and their teeth have long gone.
    Maybe this personal experience explains why i personally believe its a choice? I dunno.

    Am i against the death penalty? No. Get rid of all the murderers and rapists and pedos. I think the legal system in Australia is a joke and that far too many people are set free under the guise of 'rehabilitation'.
    We dont 'rehabilitate' dangerous animals, so why do we think we can do it with ****ed up people? God you cant even get a rapist thrown in jail these days they make it so hard on the victim. It makes me sick.

    This post is coming from a place of explaining my stance. Im not just digging my heels in the ground for no reason, its an issue that i think could go around in circles forever as personal experience plays such a big part on your emotions and beliefs when it comes to criminal activity.

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    Am I the only one who is sick and tired of this saga and all the media sensationalism?

    I think it's hypocritical that we have candle light vigils for 2 convicted drug smugglers and crying about their pending execution as a human rights violation when our political system condones refugee detention and all the other stuff done to refugees which is a violation of human rights too!

    Anyway that's my two cents!

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    Quote Originally Posted by netispaghetti View Post
    Am I the only one who is sick and tired of this saga and all the media sensationalism?

    I think it's hypocritical that we have candle light vigils for 2 convicted drug smugglers and crying about their pending execution as a human rights violation when our political system condones refugee detention and all the other stuff done to refugees which is a violation of human rights too!

    Anyway that's my two cents!
    It's not hypocritical - both are worthy issues of discussion and debate. I'm as appalled about the refugee situation as I am about this.

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    Thank you for sharing that! I think its good to see that its not like we feel the way we do for no reason. Experience shapes everything...it doesnt make us better or worse people just because your on one side of the fence

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    Quote Originally Posted by netispaghetti View Post
    Am I the only one who is sick and tired of this saga and all the media sensationalism?

    I think it's hypocritical that we have candle light vigils for 2 convicted drug smugglers and crying about their pending execution as a human rights violation when our political system condones refugee detention and all the other stuff done to refugees which is a violation of human rights too!

    Anyway that's my two cents!
    I would bet money that most people that are distressed about the death penalty are also distressed about the refugee system.

    I for one don't take responsibility for our political system :-) I don't think it makes me a hypocrite to have opinions on both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heplusme View Post

    I cant get past that these men had a choice. In fact they made four choices, they were just unlucky that Rush intervened the last time. I believe they would have done it again if they didnt get caught. They were in it for an easy pay day.

    In saying that, before this goes around in circles again, i have no wish for them to die. I think that is too full on. Its just that i know many countries practise it so it's no surprise. Women are stoned publicly in some countries for suspicion of being a witch, or looking at someone their husband doesnt like. Its these innocent cases that get my back up the most. I find it hard to have trust/forgiveness/compassion for criminals no matter what level.
    Quote Originally Posted by netispaghetti View Post
    Am I the only one who is sick and tired of this saga and all the media sensationalism?

    I think it's hypocritical that we have candle light vigils for 2 convicted drug smugglers and crying about their pending execution as a human rights violation when our political system condones refugee detention and all the other stuff done to refugees which is a violation of human rights too!

    Anyway that's my two cents!
    I am a fence sitter on the Bali 9 duo, and these 2 quotes pretty much sum up my thoughts. They are criminals. No, they don't deserve to die, but they are convicted criminals who are 100% guilty... I find it kind of... unsettling... that so much emotion and effort is going in to saving them, that complete strangers are shedding tears for them, holding candlelight vigils... when they are criminals. I imagine the situation if they were to come home, people cheering and jumping up and down for joy, the media circus at the airport when they arrive... why are they much loved celebrities, when they are criminals? If they weren't caught, they'd probably still be doing it, I think they only 'rehabilitated' because they had nothing else to do, or maybe their lawyer suggested it to get leniency.

    I probably sound like a cold-hearted b!tch, and maybe I am, but I just can't seem to find a way to support these 2 getting let off, without it seeming inappropriate to my sensibilities. I do think how they've been handled is getting to be horrible, with this being dragged out for so long, but I just can't bring myself to go and get upset over it. :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by CMF View Post
    I am a fence sitter on the Bali 9 duo, and these 2 quotes pretty much sum up my thoughts. They are criminals. No, they don't deserve to die, but they are convicted criminals who are 100% guilty... I find it kind of... unsettling... that so much emotion and effort is going in to saving them, that complete strangers are shedding tears for them, holding candlelight vigils... when they are criminals. I imagine the situation if they were to come home, people cheering and jumping up and down for joy, the media circus at the airport when they arrive... why are they much loved celebrities, when they are criminals? If they weren't caught, they'd probably still be doing it, I think they only 'rehabilitated' because they had nothing else to do, or maybe their lawyer suggested it to get leniency.

    I probably sound like a cold-hearted b!tch, and maybe I am, but I just can't seem to find a way to support these 2 getting let off, without it seeming inappropriate to my sensibilities. I do think how they've been handled is getting to be horrible, with this being dragged out for so long, but I just can't bring myself to go and get upset over it. :/
    Im not crying for them, I wont cheer if they get moved back here, I'm honestly not praying for them, they are criminals but I still don't think they deserve to die. Lock them up. Most other boys involved got life in prison. Give them the same then. Thry werent "ring leaders" just the 2 with the higher connection.

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    I don't agree with the death penalty for these two either, nor for the crime they committed especially when those filthy Bali bombing terrorists are walking around free (or at least alive in one of the cases).

    But I wonder a few things:

    1) If they had come to Australia and been caught, would they have received a decent sentence for their crime? And then, would they have "reformed" like they are said to have reformed? Would they have the same desperation to "change for the good"? Or would they be out again having another go?

    2) Didn't they take the risk? It is widely known... the laws that these countries impose.
    As sick as this all is, the Bali 9 basically said f&$* you to these countries for self gain, they thought they could "beat the system".

    3) The people who choose to inject drugs, may just be children/teenagers from abusive homes that are trying to escape or a woman who has her drink spiked before she is raped. Are these the ones that should share the blame with drug dealers/smugglers/Bali 9 clowns?

    4) I don't like or agree with the laws of these countries (Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore, Iran, Iraq, UAE....) so, I don't go there.
    Also, I don't make the backward decision to try to "fix my life/make my life better/increase my finances" by getting into illegal activities.


    5) I wonder how people would feel if it was their child/teenager that had OD from drugs that they were encouraged/pushed/forced to take? I mean, I see a lot of comments on here about teenagers not having fully mature brains and needing support and guidance... So what if these young teenagers OD in front of their parent? I'll bet the emotions/ the guilt/the blame/the hatred of the suppliers would guide the wish for the drug suppliers to suffer like they had watching their child die?


    Again, I don't agree in the sentence. I just wonder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CMF View Post
    I am a fence sitter on the Bali 9 duo, and these 2 quotes pretty much sum up my thoughts. They are criminals. No, they don't deserve to die, but they are convicted criminals who are 100% guilty... I find it kind of... unsettling... that so much emotion and effort is going in to saving them, that complete strangers are shedding tears for them, holding candlelight vigils... when they are criminals. I imagine the situation if they were to come home, people cheering and jumping up and down for joy, the media circus at the airport when they arrive... why are they much loved celebrities, when they are criminals? If they weren't caught, they'd probably still be doing it, I think they only 'rehabilitated' because they had nothing else to do, or maybe their lawyer suggested it to get leniency.
    Im feeling pretty much this. I don't understand their 'celebrity status' for being criminals? It's really just another Schapelle Corby (or however u spell that woman's name)
    To me they are criminals. They knew the risks. Do I believe they deserve the death sentence? I'm not actually sure.

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