I'm SAHM finding myself sometimes jealous of DP leaving the house at 7am and coming home 7pm to eat dinner, chat to kids and quick tidy up after dinner while I put the baby to bed. I'm strung out trying to fit in housework / shopping etc and taking the older kids to their activities. Struck me that if I was working all that other stuff would happen after work? I read that thread on full time parents routine and take my hat off to you all juggling work and kids. But when do you shop? Do you have a meal planner / cook up at the weekends? Do your kids do after school activities / playdates?
How do you find time for bubhub? I'm typing this all jittery as baby is asleep but could wake any second and there's stuff everywhere, but I need a few minutes downtime here and there? I had way more downtime at work ;-)
I do notice now that both older kids are at school there is less mess to contend with during the day though now I have a crawler who is hell bent on keeping the house as messy as possible.
do you ever just think ah stuff it, sit down and watch crappy TV with a bottle of wine and then wake up the next day and it looks like a herd of elephants had a party? Nope? Just me?
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13-02-2015 10:22 #1Senior Member
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How do you fit in after school activities / shopping / cleaning etc??
13-02-2015 11:40 #2
Haha yes, sometimes I do think that and just sit down and watch tv! Not with wine but usually ice cream.
I'm lucky in that DF gets home around 4:30/5 so he is here if I need help around dinner. Once DS1 starts soccer in a couple weeks it will be DF taking him to training. We both take him to Little Athletics on a Friday and then have our own activities other nights. DS2 only has playgroup and playdates at the moment so I'm sure it will get harder when we have to organise 2 kids to activities and fit in DF'S activities too (he plays a lot of sport).
Shopping, DF does after work. I don't drive but when I do I'll take over that and probably do it in the morning.
I'm fairly relaxed on housework. The kids know/are learning they have to help out and pick up after themselves and DF has his days that he is really helpful too.
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