I have had the same thing happen for the last 7.5 years. I really just think the ex likes to complain or ***** just to be a pain in the ****. I used to fight right back at her and explain what we did and the story she is writing about is not true. Now I don't even really defend myself. There is not a lot you can do. I do know how annoying it is though, hopefully one day soon she will back off and let you guys parent how you parent at your house without her interfering.
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06-01-2015 19:20 #21Senior Member
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07-01-2015 08:51 #22
A lot of the "problems" are when they are in MY care and not my DH's. She is actually less hostile with me, so I "deal" with it if it is something to do with my care time. With DH, she yells abuse and threatens. With me she just rants and doesn't shut up.
6 weeks ago, she reported me for hitting DSS. I have never hit any child, and certainly not my own! DSS was terrified when questioned. DSD said it wasn't true, and so did DSS. I wasn't there, obviously, but DH was. She (the ex) was warned for filing false reports.
I know it's all made up, and the reports will come to nothing, but it's such a pain to have to go through it all over and over. And it freaks the kids out.
We have started keeping a diary. As a few other things have happened which are giving us huge concern about the kids' safety.
07-01-2015 09:38 #23
a dairy is a great idea.
keep a record of everything!!!!
if she has a history of making false reports just to cause trouble, that kind of thought process doesnt just go away.
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