hugs heartstringz. men often need to be told these things. they just don't see how small selfish actions impact on others. maybe a conversation would be helpful. just to let him know how you are feeling about all of this. marie.
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13-03-2015 11:21 #871
13-03-2015 11:48 #872
13-03-2015 11:52 #873
Yes, DH, I am mad at you.
you have just asked me, for the 8th time, what time I am working today.
I am NOT working today. I took the day off so I could take DSS to his excursion this morning, and DSD to netball this afternoon.
Remember? You said you had an important meeting (AT 2PM!) that you had to prep for and didn't know when it would finish?
No? No meeting? Hmm, so you lied and can't recall your lie?
You're an idiot. Be home by 4.30pm and cook dinner, or so help me....
13-03-2015 12:01 #874
wow DT75, you need some support from someone, you are not really expected to hold the whole house on your shoulders. Hugs, marie.
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13-03-2015 18:14 #875Senior Member
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So im sitting there at lunch time watching my 8 month old ds eat his scrambled eggs, the news comes on the radio saying that there is currently a salmonella outbreak from eggs. Great.
13-03-2015 19:17 #876
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14-03-2015 11:37 #877
Disappointment is one of the hardest emotions to deal with.
14-03-2015 12:17 #878
I whinge a lot..
14-03-2015 19:47 #879
Context first: Tomorrow is our 1st Wedding Anniversary. We will spend the day apart (both kids have separate parties 3 & 4 hours away) and only see each other when getting ready in the morning, and doing bedtime routine.
So, we agreed to do presents tonight.
DSD acted up, so got sent to bed early. DH refused to do presents without her.
It's OUR anniversary, not theirs. They don't have presents to or from us. I was really trying to see his reasoning (absolute need to include them), until he said, "It's only our first wedding anniversary anyway. It's not like it's an important one".
Well, guess what DH- it's important to me.
This may be your 3rd first wedding anniversary (I'm his 3rd wife), but it is my 1st first. It's important to me.
We're not doing it tonight, and we can't do it tomorrow.
I don't want to do it at all now.
But the gifts are bought, so I'll put them in his work bag and he can find them Monday while I do the school run and come home to clean the house.
I am ridiculously disappointed.
(A part of me wanted to include the kids, because they're here and it's nice. But I don't see the absolute need. Especially as DSD did the wrong thing, and should have a consequence... sending her to bed 8mins before her brother [and DH letting her read] is not a consequence).
14-03-2015 20:07 #880
My husband always chooses a movie to watch without checking what I'm interested in, even if when I'm sitting next to him. We're watching some dumb Budapest hotel movie and it's sooooo boring which I could have told him if he asked what I wanted to watch!
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