Who else is thinking of No.2 already? I know some people must think I'm crazy but so far no-one has said it and I think since the first try after Hilt hasn't worked they understand more why we wouldn't leave it for longer, especially not another 2yrs
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05-12-2014 21:50 #231
05-12-2014 23:11 #232
Jay I was def thinking about #2 when DS was about 6mths. We tried naturally for a few months and then did another round of IVF when DS was 10.5mths - I was 6 weeks preg at his first bday party.
I def don't think you are crazy!
I always said I wanted 3 and I can't think of anything worse than starting IVF again at the moment!!! I guess that is a sign!
06-12-2014 03:33 #233
Not crazy at all Jay, I spoke to my FS/OB about it before I was even discharged from hospital and think about it most days. It's the same yearning I had before we got L. One of the reasons I stayed away for so long was because I couldn't cope seeing all the DIGs. I desperately want another child and I was hoping to have started another cycle by now because I wanted a 12-18month age gap. I know that even with ivf it may take some time again, and realistically, we just don't have it on our side. I guess I'm a bit impatient, I want a big family and I want it now haha. I've also been putting off study for 5 years to do ivf. The sooner our family is compete to sooner I can attempt Uni. I'm back to work in March and will cycle again as soon as I qualify for full Mat leave again. If successful, it will give us a 2yr gap.
BL sorry to hear you're having a rough run. I hope you get some respite soon.
Where are you moving to Jay?
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06-12-2014 05:45 #234Senior Member
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Our bub is 7 months old and I go back to work in April and plan to have another go at IVF in May or June. Would love a sibling for our little man and for them to be pretty close in age. Good luck Jay, hope you enjoyed the wine. 😉
06-12-2014 20:35 #235
Wow 7mths ABH time has flown best of luck with your return to work & next round
07-12-2014 09:35 #236
Sorry to hear it didn't work out Jay.
No I don't think you are crazy- you never know how long these things can take unfortunately.
I haven't even dtd without any protection yet and it seems strange having to worry about it. I probably would have just not bothered, with a see what happens attitude, only that we are going away in sept and oct next year and the holiday is all booked and paid for. We can't go if I happen to be 24wks or more pregnant so that in mind, we will just take it as is comes from May next year and aim to do a FET in Nov. That will give us just over 2yr age gap, if it works first go, which is nice. I have 4 frosties so will see how we go with those in about a year's time. It seems silly to be careful but we haven't had an overly long ttc journey from an Ivf perspective so I feel I need to be for the next couple of months.
07-12-2014 21:36 #237
Hope it all goes to plan Annerley maybe you'll fall pregnant on your holiday
07-12-2014 21:39 #238
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Ngaiz my obstetrician & I said at our last appt 'see you in 12months' so I had also discussed the next bub back then!
We are off to the US for 2yrs! At this stage we will live south of Washington DC! Trucks arrived mon week :0 then we drive to the Gold Coast for xmas and NYs visiting family on the way and fly out 2Jan!
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09-12-2014 18:31 #239
Wow Jay that's a big change!
Anyone else still bf? I think I'm over it :-(
09-12-2014 19:48 #240
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