I think I could be doing more! I'm going to go out and get some more books for him this weekend. The repetitive type books like going on a bear hunt, dr suess etc. Even though we read a lot I could do more.
I've taught him some signs as well, maybe I could do more of those too.
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05-09-2014 21:06 #21
29-10-2014 14:08 #22
I have recently brought this issue up with my GP who has given me the number for a paediatrician to take my son who turned two last week.
He doesn't say one word in context except for Dad. He has excellent comprehensive skills and can follow three step instructions. I read to him a lot (about 5 or 6 books a day) and he can point out almost almost anything I ask. We sing lots of songs, to which he does all the actions and he has very good fine motor skills. He can blow bubbles (and blows on food that is too hot) and babbles a little bit, but mostly just consonant sounds like deedeedee and tehtehteh. I know his hearing is fine...I have stood a few metres behind him and whispered his name and he turns around.
He will not even try to talk. As in, I say to him "Mumma, can you say Mumma?" and he looks at me like I'm a fool, he shakes his head no!
Both My mother and DP's mother think I should not be concerned. DP and my older brother both did not talk till they were nearly three and both started talking in sentences and my youngest sister did not say anything till she was 30 months then didn't shut up. But DS's little cousin who is only 4 months older is talking in sentences!
At about 18 months I started teaching him Auslan sign language as I was becoming frustrated (me more so than him) at the lack of communication and he now knows about 50 words. He will mimic actions but rarely sounds. for example when asked what an elephant says, he will do the "arm as a trunk" action but not the accompanying noise like we make. I always repeat the word when he signs to me but I am wondering if teaching him sign language may have delayed his speech even further? I can't get into the paedi for another fortnight so I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas to tie me over!
29-10-2014 14:12 #23
11-01-2015 06:56 #24
Very interesting post. Thank you, it's being a great read and has given me some insight.
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11-01-2015 07:03 #25
DS1 didn't really start to say anything until he was 2years and 2months. Now at just over 3 he doesn't shut up! But at the time it was really concerning because our DD was talking in full sentences by 18months.
DS2 is 20months and barely says a word. We aren't worried yet.
11-01-2015 07:53 #26
Really interesting to read all the responses, I'm in a similar position to you op.
My 17 month old DS has very few words, although I'm not too worried just yet (that might change!).
He says dad a lot, it's his answer for almost everything. If I ask him to say mum he replies with 'dad'. He really only says dad, mum and nana (banana).
However yesterday we were at the park when a cockatoo flew over and I said "wow, look at the big bird" and I swear he turned to me and repeated "big bird". It made me wonder if he does have more words but they just get lost in his babbling.
I read to him a lot, and he has good comprehension and can point to lots of different objects. I guess we'll just wait for a bit and maybe chat to the GP when he gets his needles soon.
11-01-2015 08:02 #27
My sons very first words were at 22 months. After 24 months more flowed out.
He's now almost 3 and very, very talkative. He creates 5 word sentences.
11-01-2015 08:09 #28
Since the post has been bumped I'll give an update. DS is now 25 months old, he is saying more words but still no where near what his peers are saying and doing. He still isn't stringing words together. But he now calls me mum! Yay!
We saw a paediatrician and she sent us off for a hearing test. His hearing test came back all good, even though he had fluid behind his ears, he had good hearing.
Because of this the paediatrician has said he has a speech delay. We need to go to speech therapy. At this point the doesn't think there is anything else wrong, ie dyspraxia, autism, language disorder however, we won't know until he starts speech so we can see how he responds to the intervention. We are currently on a waiting list for speech.
I think once he starts speech he will take off!! Well, I'm hoping any way.
11-01-2015 08:18 #29
11-01-2015 11:32 #30
I'm going private for speech, there's a waiting list for them too!! She said I should get in early this year, fingers crossed. In the meantime the paed said I should take lots of photos of objects we use/encounter daily. Hopefully DS can use them to communicate with us to stop some of the frustration.
I'm not sure about the NDIS, I'll check it out.
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