If you could offer someone advice in regards to anything in life what would that be....
Could be relationships/marriage/friendship/children/work/family/finance/sex/.....doesn't have to be one thing could be a few or your own...
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19-08-2014 09:11 #1
What would be your best advice...
19-08-2014 09:20 #2
Remember to pick and choose what advice you listen too.
Never feel like you have to taken anyone persons advice.
When you get a piece of advice don't take at face value. Truly look at if think it might work tweak it to fit your lifestyle.
19-08-2014 09:23 #3
Always answer the what ifs in your head it will help you make the right decisions and plan for every situation
19-08-2014 09:26 #4
If you are stressing\worrying ask yourself whether it will still be a problem in a week/month etc. It puts a lot of things into perspective. Make an action plan on the few things that are long term problems.
Try and live in the moment. Concentrate on enjoying your cuppa etc.
Choose your battles. Put your phone down - social media can be draining
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19-08-2014 09:28 #5
Being "just OK" is OK. Sometimes it is the best someone, or even you, has been for a long time.
Just breathe.. Chances are this problem( what ever the problem may be) will probably be resolved in a years time and you will get through it.
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19-08-2014 09:32 #6Senior Member
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*Don't sweat the small stuff.
*Listen. Really listen to people.
19-08-2014 09:37 #7
I would have a few suggestions to most everyone.
Deal with todays problems, don't stress yourself about what May happen in the future. God gives us only one day at a time and sometimes that is all we need.
I believe we are all here to teach and to learn, sometimes we might have to repeat the lesson, and we are always changing roles.
Choose your battles. some rules are rules, some can be broken, some can be bent, but most rules do have a value, so choose wisely.
Last one, we can choose how we respond/ react, choose happiness.
19-08-2014 09:50 #8
Don't tie your happiness to `when'
i.e. I will be happy when I get a new job
I will be happy when we move house
I will be happy when I lose 5kg
The when will never come. You need to find happiness in today (no easy every day)
19-08-2014 09:55 #9
Be kind, not only to yourself, but others.
This too shall pass, when things seem insurmountable.
A problem shared, is a problem halved. Confide in that bestie, loved one, confidante, don't bottle up it up if you really don't have to. It's good to have some perspective from others when you can't see it yourself, or if your thoughts are clouded by irrational thoughts.
Learn to say NO, and that it is okay to do so.
To err is human, so don't beat yourself up, really, don't.
Don't compare yourself to others or what they may have.
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19-08-2014 09:56 #10
"You're never gonna get the same things as other people. It's never gonna be equal. It's not gonna happen ever in your life so, you must learn that now, okay? Listen. The only time you should look in your neighbour's bowl is to make sure that they have enough."
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