Thanks SerenityLove I ended up calling my Mum and calling her on it and she totally tried to down play saying it was just a flippant comment as the strained relationship between my brother and I is so frustrating for her to deal with. That she didn't really mean it and they had talked since and weren't going to let me brother around- I told her I believe that she was just making that up now that she has been caught out. Either way I have cancelled her looking after him and we will be doing a family holiday instead.
Things just continually go up and down for us. She says she wants to start again with me have a clean slate and move forward... I just don't like the woman and don't trust her. I yearn for an uncomplicated relationship with my Mother but I just don't see it ever happening.
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05-08-2014 16:30 #11
05-08-2014 17:04 #12
You mum sounds like she lies when confronted as well. Its so frustrating. I personally can't deal with it anymore with mine, its too hard. I am a much happier and confident person when she isn't in my life.
I give up on the dreams of a good relationship with mine. She is too much of a narcissist. It's never gonna work unless its all on her terms and i shut up and never stand up for myself.
Sorry you're in the same boat. Feel free to PM me if you ever need to chat/vent .
05-08-2014 17:06 #13
What did she say when you cancelled her looking after your son?
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