He was my biggest support n now I have no one to support me. Stupid ****.
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02-12-2014 18:48 #41
02-12-2014 19:00 #42
Sinnym you can do it. Somebody has to stick around to see your kids grow up and that will be you. Let your dp fall off the wagon but your support needs to be your kid/s.
02-12-2014 19:01 #43
Just think of how far you have come already you have done great!
I have been really wanting to quit for ages it is so hard. Jan 1 is my quit date stupid as it sounds the only other real attempt was also a ny resolution and I made it 4 days. I feel so much different now though I hate smoking but the urge is so strong.
02-12-2014 19:02 #44
I'm trying. So hard. He blames me for him smoking tonight. Like I'd done something. I haven't had one since 930pm on Sunday and felt confident. Now I feel like i can't do it.
02-12-2014 19:10 #45
You can do this. What would your book advise in this situation?
02-12-2014 19:13 #46
Keep telling myself I'm a non smoker. Keep reminding myself it does nothing to help.
I'm feeling so emotional. I told him how would he feel if I started smoking again. He said he'd be disappointed. Then threw them at me n said go have one if I need it. I threw them away. Now I'm nearly in tears because he keeps telling me I can't keep going with him smoking. In trying so hard to ignore him.
02-12-2014 19:16 #47
Stay strong the first 3-4 days are the hardest but once you get over that hump it gets easier.
02-12-2014 19:16 #48
Well he's being supportive. Not. Lets be honest here. The odds of two of you quitting at once are probably slim. If you quit by yourself you are leading by example and then can help him quit in future. Sometimes as the woman we are stronger and do things for the good of the family. This is your time to shine.
02-12-2014 19:20 #49
I've told him that he just needs to get past the first few days n he tells me it's a load of crap. He just can't do it in my opinion. He won't support me. N thinks I'll fail. I want to prove him wrong. I want to do it.
I know it was unlikely for both of us to succeed together but I really hoped he would support me. Now I do t want to be near him because he just smells.
02-12-2014 19:32 #50
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