Hi Tommi, it is so hard I understand how you feel!!
S.A girl I feel you pain DS had a terrible night too.
I kicked DP onto the couch last night we've been arguing since we had DS but lately it's worth we've both realised this might not be working anymore. Sad really because I finally had everything I wanted.
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We are having a bad morning DS is refusing a nap he has been up for 3 hours.
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07-07-2014 13:01 #415Senior Member
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Ladies, I've been reading but haven't posted yet, just wanted to say you are all doing an amazing job!!
My now miss 5months has been doing the same as your little man SAgirl & it's driving me insane!! I think we spent most of last night awake with her attached to me & despite numerous attempts to put her down today she will only sleep while in my arms! So easy when I have a 2 & 4 yr old to deal with too...not!
She has just cut her 2 bottom teeth so I'm hoping the sleeping starts soon
07-07-2014 13:36 #416
Great. Both DS1 and ds2 were asleep, then DS2 woke up and started crying instantly. He woke up DS1 so he started crying too. They are both crying and upset and now I am crying too.
Again, no sleep at all for me.
I rang Tresillian to find out if they got my referral and the receptionist was SO rude to me. She just says. 'we don't do take ins on Mondays, you will have to ring back tomorrow' so I said I just want to confirm you got it' (otherwise I'll have to wait ANOTHER day for it to be processed. Anyway she just repeated herself in a rude tone.
I felt like screaming at her that I'm so ****en depressed from lack of sleep that I want to go and gas myself! But she wouldn't have cared so I didn't.
But that's how I feel. All I keep thinking is how I can end it all.
07-07-2014 15:08 #417
I feel like when ever I say things are going ok, that night things go poo!
8, 10.30, 1.30, 3.30, 5 (chatting SAgirl!). Ughhhh.
Whenever he wakes at 10.30 it pretty much means it will be a crap night. Like if I woke him for a dream feed. I wonder if something is waking him. DH gets ready for bed around then.
I was doing a tight muslin over him wiseenough but he kept getting out from under it! He didn't do it too much last night.
His little 'free' arm was a little cold to touch as well, I wonder if I should put long-sleeves on? I always worry about him overheating and his room is 22-23 but maybe he's like me, I'm always cold when I sleep.
Ugh. I just want to go back to sleep . But we have a trial music class today so I feel I should try to keep his naps on schedule. I think our nights are worse whenever I'm looser on his naps.
Must catch up with the rest of the posts!
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07-07-2014 15:22 #419
HGL - My nights turned to **** when DS started waking up before 11:30pm... He never used to wake up at that time before... From birth to 3.5/4 months he slept 7pm to 11:30pm (earliest)
I also wondered if it was when DH went to bed... When we run the taps the sound is pretty loud through the house so when he brushes teeth before bed I think maybe he woke DS? Now he's in that habit?
07-07-2014 15:56 #420
@LiterallyNoOne I am so sorry to hear about your relationship. My relationship with my DH has changed and we probably are not as connected due to my anxiety with DSs feeds etc. If you don't mind me asking, do you think it is stress of a new bub causing the arguments due to tiredness and stress? Would some time alone help or counseling if you are both wanting to stay together?
@SAgirl, I cannot even imagine how tired you must feel after last night. I am also appalled by the treatment you received from tresillian. Tresillian is a service for parents who need support so the receptionist should be much more sympathetic and if possible help you wherever possible. I would be making a complaint that is not ok. I hope you get in soon, we found asking to go onto the cancellation list fantastic we got in quickly as have friends of mine. Is it a day stay or a residential?
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