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    Default Positive FRER #1

    Hi everyone

    On the eve of Anzac day I posted whether the tests were shonky.. well yesterday I did another lot and the test lines were darker and there is definitely 2 lines.

    Last night we showed future MIL the darkest test that we had and she said.. 'oh I know people who got a positive test and they weren't really pregnant'! & told me that I HAVE to go get a blood test so she has proof!

    I'm already booked in for Wed to get one anyway.

    Seriously the MIL is so negative about everything. (She has never liked me) & has tried to break my relationship up and has abused me and such. It got to the point where my partner didn't talk to her on 3 different occasions.. 2 years, 1.5 years and just recently started talking to her again after 11 months of no contact.

    She will be the death of me. I can actually say that I've done nothing wrong towards her ever. I tend not to say much incase she blows up (again).

    I don't deserve this from her or anyone from her family.


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    Ughhhh how rude! I can't wait til you have your blood test and shove that positive in her face too

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    Congrats!!

    I would keep her at arms length. I wouldn't bring anything up with her regarding blood tests etc.. She doesn't deserve to be involved so closely.

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    I've gone out of my way to try and make her happy and it doesn't work.

    I told my partner that I doubt that I'll leave our baby with his mum alone ever. I can't trust her anymore.

    I told her last night that I'm not interested in having a baby shower in the future and she ignored me and said she was going to throw me one.

    Can't win.

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    That is extremely rude! She should have been excited for you. She sounds pretty toxic and I wouldnt be involving her in anything regarding your pregnancy. You don't need ppl like that dragging you down.


    DH + Me + DD (born 11/10/12) = our little family :-)

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    Thanks for all the supportive comments. I wasn't sure about what feedback I would get.

    I will probably follow all your advices. I feel the same way. My partner agrees with what has been said and the comments on here. So I do have his support as well

    Xx

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    Having the support of DP is even better! Good luck

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