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    Can I just say how nice it is (even though it's totally sh!t) to have a bunch of women who know exactly how we all feel and can really understand what each if us are going through.

    It's total bs when people say "what will be will be" etc. I feel like telling people who say things like that and "just relax" to stuff it up their ar$es!

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    I agree Star, even though it's crappy circumstances it is nice to have others who understand what we're all going through. I hope we can all be in a DIG one day soon together

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    Oh I hear you. I swear the next person to tell me to "stop trying and it will happen" I will stab in the eye. ummm yeah that makes so much sense

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    My god girls it's so nice to have you all! No one else really knows how I feel. Love you all!!


    Me 29
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    I agree. The one person in the real world who I could talk to about this stuff was the one who just announced her pregnancy so I don't feel like I can really vent to her anymore... So as awful as it is that we're all in this situation, at least I know someone here will always understand.

    Me - 30, Dh - 38 ttc #1 since June 2011
    natural bfp June 2012 - mc 5.5 weeks; 5 cycles clomid; 2 unsuccessful ivf.

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    Same. By BFF just had twins. First time trying too. That was a huge slap in the face for me. I can't even bring myself to visit her now she's at home. I don't want to crack or to upset her. She doesn't need my crap now


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    I don't have anyone IRL. Everyone I know is as fertile as hell, many with whoopsies and abortions (not judging that but they don't understand). Family don't get it, friends don't get it. In fact some of the rudest comments have come from them. I know they don't intentionally mean it, in fact they are trying to be helpful... but they aren't.

    Maybe the universe is telling you to stop?
    Maybe it's for the best, you really need to get out and get a job - after the last m/c, said by my mother who was on the SPP for a decade not working before the changes came in.
    Stop trying and it will happen
    You need to be thankful for the kids you have (urrmmm I am???)These are just a handful of the pearlers I've copped Just feeling REALLY angry.
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    Del, I'm the same too! I have sooo many friends who have 'accidentally' fallen pregnant on the pill & then constantly complain to me throughout their pregnancy's, even though they know my history. I am also sick of the comments of 'but you're so lucky to be able to go out with DH, or sleep in, or to be going on holidays', etc. I'd happily give these things up at the drop of a hat for a baby.

    Also, the most awful comments I have received when I had my miscarriage have all been from friends & family who were close to me too which sucks.

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    Huge hugs ladies xxxxx


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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocky27 View Post
    Del, I'm the same too! I have sooo many friends who have 'accidentally' fallen pregnant on the pill & then constantly complain to me throughout their pregnancy's, even though they know my history. I am also sick of the comments of 'but you're so lucky to be able to go out with DH, or sleep in, or to be going on holidays', etc. I'd happily give these things up at the drop of a hat for a baby.

    Also, the most awful comments I have received when I had my miscarriage have all been from friends & family who were close to me too which sucks.
    When we were ttc for nearly 5 years for DD, that used to really sh*t me. ohhh you are so lucky to sleep in. You have a great life, you get to party when you want (I was well past that stage anyway). Yep, my life was so good I could be found balling my eyes out every month of failure, crumpled up in agony from endometriosis. Riiiiight.

    Yes the night feeds are a killer. Yes you feel like you are losing your mind some days. I feel like a truck has run me over for 2/3 of the pg. It's worth every second.

    You will get there girls, I feel it. Even Star, who I know has all but given up. I just have this feeling there is a baby for you too.

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