I got the date for my lap, I am booked in for jan 22 fx I get a bfp this month and don't need it.
Good luck today star with your lap, you'll do great.
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27-11-2014 11:12 #991
27-11-2014 12:22 #992
If i be honest there have been plenty of days along this journey when i have asked is life worth living with so much pain. My GP referred me to a Psychologist 5 years ago and i have been seeing him on the Medicare Mental Health Plan So it costs very little. It has been a MASSIVE help. He gave me permission to hate my situation, to rail against the injustice of it all, to get the ****s with the Clinics who after all are JUST businesses.
Now I am on my very last try. If this doesn't work i will morn the life I had planned for myself but i will also embrace the exciting prospect of a clean slate. A new start, with no plans, No Failure, No expectations and endless possibilities.
Sending you all Love and Hugs Especially to you @starflame I hope you get some answers today.
27-11-2014 16:03 #993
Thank you ladies. I had my lap and dye test today. I don't think I've ever felt as heartbroken during this journey as I do right now.
The surgeon came to see me in recovery. My left tube is blocked by scarring, I have adhesions from the back of my uterus to my bowel and both tubes and ovaries are adhered to my uterus and side wall. Clomid won't work for me No option but ivf :'( absolutely heartbroken :'(
27-11-2014 16:57 #994
starflame I'm so sorry to read that! I'm so proud of you for pushing and pushing for answers - you have them now and knowledge is power.
Right now we know it feel impossible for you to do IVF (all that bloody money) - but only last week the Nurse at my IVF clinic was saying it is only going to be a matter of time before there is Medicare only IVF treatment. So take time now to care for yourself. Enjoy time with your wonderful supportive and loving hubby. and as soon as the Medicare Only IVF makes its way to your area you will be ready to go and in a great place Physically and mentally for it. Sending hugs your way
27-11-2014 18:45 #995Senior Member
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Starflame.... oh I'm so sorry. I just don't know why these things happen to some people and not others. And after having gone through 12 cycles of IVF myself, I sooo don't wish it on anyone. But yes, take your time to grieve a bit, then look into some of the cheaper IVF options that are out there. Thinking of you - none of this is easy.
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27-11-2014 19:43 #997Member
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Oh Star... I'm sorry to hear... Hang in there lovely, you are still young and as Boysie said, cheaper IVF options will become available in the near future. Did you have any symptoms??? Sending you big hugs x
Boysie, thank you for sharing your story. Your perseverance is truly admirable - you are stronger than you think.
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27-11-2014 20:31 #998
Huge hugs star
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28-11-2014 02:15 #1000Senior Member
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Hi. Can I join you ladies? I have been joining testing threads but they just make this TTC caper more difficult. I am blessed with 3 healthy children, but in my heart I am not done. My youngest just turned five and I've been TTC since I had her. I have had a mc, an ectopic and numerous chemicals. I have been on Metformin for the last year, as the OB I was referred to by the OB that delivered my kids found I have glucose intolerance, which is a little bit of an explanation for my problems. Throw into that DH is FIFO and not always home at the right time. People around me keep having babies and I just want it to be my turn again already.
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