Short answer - NO.
Long answer - HELL NO!!
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20-05-2014 13:05 #71
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20-05-2014 13:10 #72
No never ok. My dad cheated on my mum with a work colleague. Both were married, she had 5 young kids my dad had my sister and I.... both knew about each other's families and exactly who they were hurting but didn't give a ****. 10 years on I have forgiven but will always be so sad and disgusted that another woman could knowingly do that to my beautiful mother let alone my dad.
Maybe I am clouded by what I was put through at 16 but I will honestly never understand...
Last edited by Purple Lily; 20-05-2014 at 13:13.
20-05-2014 13:15 #73
20-05-2014 13:22 #74Senior Member
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Nope there is no excuse or an ok.
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20-05-2014 13:30 #75
I have been in the situation where I have been very unhappy in a relationship and very tempted by another guy. So I went home, talked with my then bf and broke it off. Didn't go for the other guy cause I didn't really like him, was just craving the attention he provided. I do understand the feelings but there is a right way to go about it imo. If someone feels a connection to someone in a relationship they have the moral responsibility to back off and let them sort out their issues or end it. Most of the blame does lay with the one in the relationship but everyone needs to take responsibility for their own actions too.
20-05-2014 13:34 #76
Deleted. Wrote something snarky but then reconsidered
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20-05-2014 14:18 #77
It's made me pretty untrusting in life now ,though they're still together and we have all moved on. I don't know if I could forgive and move on if my partner did it, I couldn't live with the distrust eating away
20-05-2014 14:50 #78
20-05-2014 14:58 #79Junior Member
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20-05-2014 15:08 #80
I haven't read all the replies but in answer to the OP's question - NO I don't think it's ever ok.
I do think certain relationships can overcome the hurt of cheating but it's rare.
As to those who say the other party is not to blame or at fault, sorry but that's a load of bull****! Of course they are to blame and are at fault ( if they knew the man / woman was married)!
It takes two to tango as they say, yes they may not have any moral obligation to the person being cheated on, but they are still to blame.
The hurt and anger would be towards the cheating husband or wife yes, but you can't tell me you wouldn't be ****ed off with the 'other woman / man' after all, if for eg he/she was pursuing the married person, of course they would hold some accountability, especially if they knew he/she was married or in a relationship.
No one likes to be cheated on! Cheaters should really put the shoe on the other foot and imagine what it feels like to be cheated on. It sucks!
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