Hi ladies, just hoping for a little advice on what I might be able to say to my friend. I was ttc for a year when I finally got my bfp which ended sadly in a mc. My friend knows none of this but everytime I see her she asks me if I'm trying for a baby yet. Unknown to her it's getting quite hard on me everytime she does this. I don't really want to tell her my ttc story or about my mc. How can I get her to stop asking me if I'm going to have a baby soon? TIA.
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07-04-2014 16:05 #1
Any advice please?
07-04-2014 16:23 #2
Maybe tell her that you'd rather not talk about it ? Also maybe tell her that when it does happen you'll be sure to tell her.
07-04-2014 16:24 #3
I would be saying "you know when you ask when i'm planning on a baby? It actually hurts. I'm not at a place where I want to talk about it but would you mind not asking? I know you mean well...blah blah blah...". Most women would get that.
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12-04-2014 09:59 #4Senior Member
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I used to get sick of that question as well, so if anyone asked, I told them we had decided that we didn't want to have kids. I found that if I told them we were ttc, we got all the same crap about needing to relax and it'll happen, try doing this or that and it'll happen, which was more annoying.
24-04-2014 14:09 #5Member
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Or what about confiding in her. She would feel happy to be included in your jouneys. And will stop asking evey time if you say it jusn;t doesn't that quickly for you. By the way hang in there. It will happen one day.
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