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    Default Do you still tuck your older children in at night?

    Do you still tuck your school aged children in at night, read to them, kiss goodnight in bed etc? If not, at what age did you stop?

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    My eldest has only just turned 5 she started school this year and yep we still read books together every night and I always tuck her in give her a kiss and tell her that I love her, I hope i'll be doing it for a long while yet.

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    I try to because they fall asleep much more quickly and its the time of the day they have me all to themselves and usually open up a lot about whats going on in their world. They put themselves to bed, read for a bit, then I go in and cuddle then lights off.

    My hubby thinks I'm 'spoiling' them and they're too old but I think thats a cop out coz he's too lazy to do it himself. Theyre 9 & 11. The 4 yr old I read with and he goes to sleep, the babies, I lie down with til they fall asleep.

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    I still tuck my 7 year old in, of course!

    My DP still goes in and kisses his 13 year old son goodnight, as well as his 10yo and 6yo sons. Our 4 boys all get themselves ready for bed and then DP and I go in and kiss them goodnight once they're in their beds. DD is generally the only one who gets a story (she's 2).

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    What age are you talking about? I still do with my 6 year old and probably will for at leaat til they become teens then I would still expect at leaat a kiss on the cheek

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    My oldest is 8.5 and we cuddle, chat, read etc... before bed. I can't see that stopping any time soon as it's one of the loveliest parts of our day!

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    Nope... My 9yo takes herself off to bed at bedtime and reads to herself every night. This has been happening since around the time she turned 8. We still say goodnight and have a cuddle on the couch before bed.

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    Yep, Ds is about to turn 10 and is in Year 4. We sometimes read together...but mainly we have a chat and then a kiss/hug at bedtime every night. I also still go back and check on him before i go to bed

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    Yep, still tuck all my kids into bed every night and go in and give them a kiss once their asleep before I go to bed. I will keep doing it until they tell me to stop. They grow up so fast, its my way of feeling like they are still my babies for a bit longer.

    me + he = dd1 (July 2007), dd2 (July 2010), dd3 (August 2012), dd4 (due May 2014) + sil (1997)

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    mostly my DD (nearly 8) gets herself ready for bed. we have a kiss and cuddle on the couch and she goes upstairs to brush her teeth, read etc.

    lately she has been asking us to go up and tuck her in ... but mostly we say goodnight downstairs.


 

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