Thank you all for your input I just can't wait for this phase to be over. I'm on top of all this trying to get over my first love break up. I've tried my best to remain positive and strong and be inviting to the father to come and visit but he has started to come visit his dd less and less. So on top of the break up I'm breaking more because his missing out. I've tried to offer not being present for when he visits her as he has no issues with my mother and she is neutral on the matter. But still isn't showing up when he says he is coming and not giving us any notice his not going to be able to visit.

So now that breaks my heart and well I just feel he isn't proving himself as a parent.
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