... And p!sses me off in the process.
Just saw her in an interview and I think this girl really needs a lesson in keeping her incorrect opinions to herself.
She is an AP advocate and good for her. But her claims that "controlled crying" parenting means people "just leaving their baby in a room and closing the door while they cry" is grossly misinformed and ignorant.
Grrrr just hate it when "celebrities" use their soap box to spread inaccurate nonsense. She actually continued to say that the practice was "not right" not natural etc.
It hit a sore spot and offended me because I struggled with getting DD to sleep at around 10 months and after initially feeling very reluctant to go that CC route (due to uneducated assumptions) I taught DD the art of sleeping and changed our lives. She was not once distressed or left alone. Get your facts straight girly.
I just hate the fact that more and more people are listening to such incorrect descriptions and judging any mother who does not choose to sleep with their baby and labelling that as unnatural and wrong.
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22-01-2014 10:09 #1
Peaches Geldof talks attachment parenting.
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22-01-2014 10:26 #2
Many cc and CIO parents do close the door and leave their kids to cry?
That's also my understanding of cc and CIO?
22-01-2014 10:26 #3
Maybe she just meant it didn't feel natural or wasn't right for her? I don't think it's good to spout incorrect information but I everyone is still entitled to an opinion.
A lot of people I know feel the same (including myself) about controlled crying, it's not for me. It doesn't feel natural and I personally don't like the idea of my child crying themselves to sleep. Doesn't mean I don't think it doesn't work for other mums/babies though. Especially as I have a baby who refuses every sleep so I totally get trying anything that works.
There is SO much advice out there on parenting especially breast vs bottle, co sleeping, sugar etc. At the end of the day every mum knows what's right for her own child so you have to take most of it with a grain of salt.
22-01-2014 10:28 #4
She infuriated me too and I was hoping the hosts would step in and say that her AP methods don't work for every parent. I hope no exhausted mums struggling with breast feeding or sleep issues were watching that, because if I watched that while my DD was very young I'd feel like a failure for bottle feeding and sleep training. I could not have done her style of attachment parenting, I need sleep and space! Her style is very mother-centric, whereas I loved having DH share the feeding and settling roles with me so I could have rest and independence.
Didn't she also say something at the end about women's bodies being built for breast feeding? Sexist much? We are so much more than a set of boobs. And I wish those intelligent career women hosting the show had spoken up. I doubt Ita Buttrose got to where she is being chained to a bed with a kid attached to her til age 3!
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22-01-2014 10:32 #5
22-01-2014 10:33 #6Senior Member
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Which interview was it?
But in her defense (not having seen the interview) I honestly thought that's what CC/CIO was too. That's the only way it's been described to me.
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There is a massive difference between controlled crying and CIO. It is not one in the same approach.
22-01-2014 10:36 #8
People's own experiences alter their view of such things as controlled crying. I'm sure there are ways to do it without the child being distressed and I know it does work for lots of kids and helps them get to sleep.
22-01-2014 10:37 #9
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