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    Having never had an abortion I can't say for sure what I'd do. However, hypothetically no I don't think I'd tell my partner about previous abortions unless it had affected my fertility. In the case of a one night stand I would make the decision whether or not to abort on my own. Even if I was in a long term relationship I and the pregnancy wasn't wanted by me I would discuss it with the father but ultimately the decision would be mine.

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    One night stand no I wouldnt tell. Previous abortion I would tell my current partner and have done so.

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    Having been in this very situation waaaaay back when I was young and dumb and used sex as an emotional pleaser (now I just eat! ) I can say that:

    A) no, I would not tell the father of a one- night stand. He had no interest in me outside of the bedroom and would certainly have not taken the news well at all. I did what I did to save everyone a lifetime of misery.

    B) yes I did tell my current partner. He knows everything about me, and that is a part of me.

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    I told the father when I had mine, we were in a long term relationship. And my husband knows about it - I don't keep things from him.


 

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