Maybe get it checked out to put your mind at ease. I am hoping its nothing.
Dont worry I ovulate 3-4 days after a positive OPK too and about 20/21cd.
I have decided that if we are unsuccessful after our March cycle that I will go to my FS asking to do IUI.
We will have been trying for over 1.5 years and the unexplained infertility crap is just not going to cut it.
If she is unwilling to do that I may look at getting referred to a new FS or ask for more aggressive testing as we have only done the basics.
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12-02-2014 13:58 #201Senior Member
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12-02-2014 17:13 #202
Nikita if you have the cash just go straight to IUI. We would already be doing IVF if we could afford it. I think unexplained infertility is almost the worst case scenario huh? I'm sick of specialists saying they don't know what's wrong.
Well my weird cervix issue has gone away lol clearly it's a hormonal thing around ovulation. Still have EWCM and no aching ovaries so it seems tomorrow will be the earliest for ovulation. Before the last 2 cycles this has never happened before. It's never been more than 24 hours after the surge.
Just feeling really crappy and pessimistic today.... but relieved I don't have cervical cancer
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12-02-2014 18:58 #203
Hi ladies, hoping I can join you in the Lt TTC for a chat.
Dh and I have a wonderful 3.5yr DD and have been ttc for 16mts now. Had a chem in Jan last year and miscarried at 12 weeks Aug too. Stopped ovulating all together and have spent the last 4mts on clomid, ovulating every time but still no bfp. So I can get pregnant, sometimes, but its few and far between and when I do I can't keep them. Nothing explainable just shonky hormone levels and I suspect an egg quality problem.
I have a follow up with my new FS in 2 weeks so will see what he says. I'm hoping to be referred to ivf asap as I'm so over this game. Part of me is excited but I'm also terrified as if is last resort and if it doesn't work I'm not sure where to from there. I'm also scared that they'll want me to keep trying rather than agreeing that I start ivf.
12-02-2014 19:07 #204
In terms of waiting between cycles, unfortunately I've had lots of practice and I actually find it to be more stressful on cycle cause I'm thinking how is my stressful work impacting on what I'm trying to achieve. It's just become a way of life - will actually be strange when I have to stop! But I'm very much looking forward to that day.
12-02-2014 19:11 #205
12-02-2014 19:19 #206
Delirium - I think I've read some of your stories on here. The unknown and the waiting really does suck.
12-02-2014 19:58 #207
Yep. Unexplained infertility sucks. If there's nothing wrong with us, and we dtd through my whole cycle, why aren't I pregnant? There must be something wrong. I'm feeling extremely angry & tired of this whole thing. I'm 6dpo & I just want this cycle over with already. I know it will end with a BFFN (extra F intentional), so why delay the inevitable? Technically I'm supposed to keep ttc "naturally" until my birthday (31 March), but I can't stand the thought of going through another cr@ppy inconsistent cycle. I just want to cut to the chase & do IVF. The cost pales in comparison to the size of our mortgage, so what the heck right? Sorry for the rant. I'm just so over this rollercoaster.
"...dreaming of a belly full of life..."
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12-02-2014 20:16 #208
Yep, I've already given up on this cycle and haven't even ovulated yet. Feeling the same way funchu. Absolutely ****ing had enough. We are heading for 3 years
Don't think I've ever felt so frustrated and upset It's just not fair!!!
12-02-2014 22:05 #209
Oh ladies I feel you! It'll be 3 years for us in July and it's such a saddening thought. I told hubby the other day that I really feel we aren't meant to have kids it really really sucks and I just wish all of us could just snap our fingers and be pregnant!! It seems to be all some people do to get a baby :P
12-02-2014 22:45 #210
Hi ladies. Unfortunately we are at 3yrs, 4 months of ttc...it seems like forever !!
How is everyone going? I haven't been on here for a while.
I became an Aunt today & am so happy for my brother, his gf & their new little baby boy. They don't live here but I wish they did so I could have some new born cuddles It was hard hearing about their pregnancy (it was a one off thing) but it seems to be getting easier.
I have the flu atm & am feeling awful! I wish it would go away already
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