I've been feeling the same Del. I seem to have ups & downs. I'll be doing really well but then babies & the way others seem to fall pregnant so easily will get me down all of a sudden. I've found myself feeling more angry that DH & my life is put on hold while others can move forward. I found it so hard over Xmas when we had extended family staying with us with a baby & other young kids complaining about having them. I nearly lost it. Then there is my brother who had a one night stand & you guessed it, she's due in about 1-2 wks time.
I also find myself getting upset when I hear DH explaining to friends that we're going to do IVF. i get upset because i see 'our issues' are really because of my endo, pcos & biocornuate uterus.
It's so hard & I find it difficult when numerous people tell me to 'go on a holiday' or other useless advice.
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29-01-2014 18:35 #171
29-01-2014 18:41 #172
oh yes, the well meaning but infuriating advice from people who have had no issues with conceiving.
Just stop trying and it will happen
Stop stressing so much then it will happen
maybe the universe is telling you that you only get two?
maybe it's time to be thankful for the two you have move on with your life?
At least you lost yours early before they were babies (ummm they were babies to me, just tiny undeveloped ones??? )
How is STFU for a response???
29-01-2014 18:58 #173
*sigh.. We'll just keep plodding along as I'm not ready to get off this train yet.
Thinking of you x
29-01-2014 19:04 #174
I'm not ready to give up yet either bel. 12 months ago I gave Jan this year as the cut off. Now we've extended to the end of the year. 3 years in early July. **** that's depressing. Sorry to be on such a downer, just feeling pretty average today....
29-01-2014 19:05 #175
29-01-2014 19:24 #176
You all read my mind today, I struggle every day to understand why we were chosen to have this hurtful/depressing journey. Not only having IVF as our only option to possibly conceive but to have our baby taken after everything we went through, was just plain cruel. When their are so many around us who fell so easily and have healthy babies on the way. Angry and Upset with the universe. Sometimes I just think maybe I shouldnt bother and mess with the universes plan
29-01-2014 19:53 #177
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02-02-2014 10:20 #178
How is everyone? TTC sucks! xxx
02-02-2014 14:08 #179
How are you Rocky, Wishnhope, Del, Funchu, Teeja, Starflame and others I've missed? X
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02-02-2014 14:14 #180
I'm fine. cd5 have been taking isoflavones. I need to ovulate by the 14th or it's cutting it too fine to test before the lap. I'm hot, bothered and crabby lol
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