It's ok. It is horrible to tell people of a loss after they know.
It terms if pain- I had a mc at 9 weeks and I can say that there wasnt much pain at all- just all over aching for one day of the 2 weeks of bleeding
The cramps aches and pains of being pregnant for me is much worse
And I regards to an early mc, what what I have been told at 4 w ish it's not much more than a heavy period
Every pregnancy is different.
You seem to be having a normal pregnancy so far. Keep calm xxx
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10-01-2014 16:56 #92Senior Member
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You aren't insane for freaking out, I've freaked out with every pregnancy I've had (currently on number 8, though only 4 babes earth side so far). I still have the feeling some days that this pregnancy will not end well, even at 24 weeks.
The sad reality is that if you are going to miscarry early, then there is nothing that can be done to stop it. It doesn't mean that it hurts any less, but if it happens it happens. I have had to break the news to family, friends and my own children before that we've lost bub. I won't lie, it is devastating, but I have found that you end up with tonnes of support when you share the sad news.
And every pregnancy is totally different. My missed m/cs are the pregnancies that I really haven't had any bad signs and two of my earth side babes I had the worst pregnancies with, with all signs pointing to it not ending well.
I'm sure you will have a happy, successful pregnancy.
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10-01-2014 18:57 #93
Hey just to try and help you stress a bit less, about 3 days before I tested and got a BFP I had such terrible cramping that I put a tampon in and took naprogesic and Panadeine...this cramping continued till I got my BFP (and after!) and the result of that is my 3 year old DD. So many changes and hormones happening inside, cramping is normal!
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10-01-2014 22:18 #94Senior Member
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Hi Sam I have been reading this and I am not sure why but I can't get it out of my mind that maybe you fell with twins and one is no longer there but the other is doing well. Again I don't know why I am thinking this.
I had bleeding for 2 weeks with all pregnancies. They are now 6,3,1. I was told the plug does not close over until 8ish weeks pregnant. As the uterus grows it can push blood out. As long as you don't have clots or massive bleeds that can fill a pad in half an hour then I was told it should be ok. The pains I am not sure why you are getting them but it could be a cyst? A internal ultra sound will help ease your mind.
I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you and I will keep a eye on this thread.... Also Happy Birthday
11-01-2014 07:40 #95
You have so much support on here how u feeling today?
Me: 31, DH: 33, DD1: 8, DD2: 6 😃 #3 due Sept 2014 ❤
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11-01-2014 11:08 #96
Still cramping today... It's been since like Monday non-stop pretty much! But I'm not as worried by it now because my betas seem to be flying up! Maybe it really just is because my uterus is stretching heaps.. Dunno.
DD #1- 30.11.08
DD #2- 28.03.11
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