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    Hes doing it to me again. Saw tired signs, did a wind down routine (rocked in rocking chair, dark low stimulus room, white noise, wrapped, sang a song) & then when I put him in his cot he started trying to play again. I patted & shushed & sang & banged the mattress but he kept trying to play until he just lost it & started SCREAMING.

    Now I cant get him down at all, anywhere.

    I guess he just wont sleep then, if thats what he wants.

    So over this. I thought I was doing everything right, consistantly etc, I just dont understand why it wont work

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    Hes doing it to me again. Saw tired signs, did a wind down routine (rocked in rocking chair, dark low stimulus room, white noise, wrapped, sang a song) & then when I put him in his cot he started trying to play again. I patted & shushed & sang & banged the mattress but he kept trying to play until he just lost it & started SCREAMING.

    Now I cant get him down at all, anywhere.

    I guess he just wont sleep then, if thats what he wants.

    So over this. I thought I was doing everything right, consistantly etc, I just dont understand why it wont work

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    Try not to lose heart. My DD did the exact same thing and still does now at 14 months. She will be sleepy but then as soon as I put her down its like she's found a new burst of energy. As she's gotten older I've noticed that it seems to be relief that she's been put in her bed, if that makes sense? Maybe when you put him in his cot next time just put him down, such him and leave? I find that if I do that (and did that) dd will faff for a little and wriggle a bit then go to sleep. (And that's the same as she did when she was little) it turns out me staying and doing all the patting etc was just stopping her from sleeping and keeping her stimulated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    Hes doing it to me again. Saw tired signs, did a wind down routine (rocked in rocking chair, dark low stimulus room, white noise, wrapped, sang a song) & then when I put him in his cot he started trying to play again. I patted & shushed & sang & banged the mattress but he kept trying to play until he just lost it & started SCREAMING.

    Now I cant get him down at all, anywhere.

    I guess he just wont sleep then, if thats what he wants.

    So over this. I thought I was doing everything right, consistantly etc, I just dont understand why it wont work

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    You poor thing

    Quite often by the time bub is displaying the obvious tired signs it is too late. By that point it's a rush against the clock to get bub to bed, so I would cut back on some of the routine you've got. Keep it very short ....1-3 minutes from when you notice the tired sign bub should be in bed. Nappy, swaddle, quick cuddle while signing then put bub down. It's possible that by having too much going on (song, white noise, patting, banging mattress etc) you're over stimulating bub. My first used to have a horrible witching period in the evening. I tried everything to get him to sleep, white noise, sleepy light shoes, singing. In the end it hit me: less is best. Within 3 nights if me cutting out the stimulation (including giving the night feed in front of the TV) the witching stopped.

    If you want a cheats way (which is what I did because I sucked at picking tired signs) look up average awake times for your bubs age. Then 15 minutes before that time is up out yourself on heightened alert for bubs tired signs/bed. If you want the extra cheats way (like me) look into a routine for your bubs weight/age and it can really help to take the guess work out of it. I understand routine is by for everyone though.

    Hang in there.

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    I'm exhausted.

    Hugo doesn't sleep well unless I'm on the bus, have the tv on or pushing the pram. This does not work for DD. I just want to cry actually I am crying on the bus.

    If I lay him down in his cot for more than 60 seconds he makes himself sick. He doesn't have reflux at all he just works himself up to point of this. Done chiro done osteo done everything. WHY WONT U SLEEP FOR ME. He won't even take a ****ING bottle. Or food.

    I'm so over it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by monnie24 View Post
    I'm exhausted.

    Hugo doesn't sleep well unless I'm on the bus, have the tv on or pushing the pram. This does not work for DD. I just want to cry actually I am crying on the bus.

    If I lay him down in his cot for more than 60 seconds he makes himself sick. He doesn't have reflux at all he just works himself up to point of this. Done chiro done osteo done everything. WHY WONT U SLEEP FOR ME. He won't even take a ****ING bottle. Or food.

    I'm so over it.
    Hugs!

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    Quote Originally Posted by monnie24 View Post
    I'm exhausted.

    Hugo doesn't sleep well unless I'm on the bus, have the tv on or pushing the pram. This does not work for DD. I just want to cry actually I am crying on the bus.

    If I lay him down in his cot for more than 60 seconds he makes himself sick. He doesn't have reflux at all he just works himself up to point of this. Done chiro done osteo done everything. WHY WONT U SLEEP FOR ME. He won't even take a ****ING bottle. Or food.

    I'm so over it.
    Will he take a dummy? What about you @heartstringz?

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    Nope my ds wont take a dummy, tried heaps of different ones

    Edit: and herewe go again. I just spent the last hour trying to get him down, anywhere. He spent half of that time laughing in his cot (after showing me tired signs) so I just walked out & left him there. Then he lost the plot & screamed the place down & wouldnt stop, wouldnt settle anywhere. He was also yawning & rubbing his eyes whilst screaming.

    And now hes laughing again in his rocker

    I guess I just wont bother anymore. If he wants to be awake for the entire day then he guess I can be. Ive tried to help him go to sleep & it just doesnt work.

    I guess ill just make my injury even worse by carrying/wearing him around the house for hours & hours each day when hes losing the plot cause hes so overtired. God im so over this. And so confused about when hes actually tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    Nope my ds wont take a dummy, tried heaps of different ones

    Edit: and herewe go again. I just spent the last hour trying to get him down, anywhere. He spent half of that time laughing in his cot (after showing me tired signs) so I just walked out & left him there. Then he lost the plot & screamed the place down & wouldnt stop, wouldnt settle anywhere. He was also yawning & rubbing his eyes whilst screaming.

    And now hes laughing again in his rocker

    I guess I just wont bother anymore. If he wants to be awake for the entire day then he guess I can be. Ive tried to help him go to sleep & it just doesnt work.

    I guess ill just make my injury even worse by carrying/wearing him around the house for hours & hours each day when hes losing the plot cause hes so overtired. God im so over this. And so confused about when hes actually tired.

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    Check this article out:

    http://www.troublesometots.com/are-y...wake-too-long/

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    I'm going to be a pain and give you the worst advice I was ever given.
    Let him stay awake all day.
    Just 1 full day.
    Wake him at 8am and every time he looks like he wants to sleep play with him or feed him. Make it fun and relaxed.
    If by 6pm he is still awake start your bedtime routine with a warm bath. Warm milk. Warm cuddles.
    I know it sounds like the worst advice ever but it was enough to reset my boy and make sure he was tired at bedtime.
    I did it for a week as he was older than your Bub. He had developed bad sleep habits.

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    [QUOTE=DueInAugust;8009011]I'm going to be a pain and give you the worst advice I was ever given.
    Let him stay awake all day.
    Just 1 full day.
    Wake him at 8am and every time he looks like he wants to sleep play with him or feed him. Make it fun and relaxed.
    If by 6pm he is still awake start your bedtime routine with a warm bath. Warm milk. Warm cuddles.
    I know it sounds like the worst advice ever but it was enough to reset my boy and make sure he was tired at bedtime.
    I did it for a week as he was older than your Bub. He had developed bad sleep


    Bub stayed awake for half a day earlier in the week as he refused his afternoon sleep. By the evening it took 3 of us 2 hours to get him down, he screamed hysterically that entire time & screamed himself to sleep. If thats after half a day, im scared to even contemplate a full day awake.

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