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    My DS is 16 months and never slept through the night. I'm over it. Nothing has worked for us, including sleep school. It's so difficult to function on 5 hours of broken sleep a night, as well as having a chronic illness and no family support. I'm starting to go around the bend

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    How do you deal with the frustration when your baby only sleeps for one sleep cycle (30 minutes) each time during the day & it often takes longer than that to get him to go to sleep (in rocker not cot)?

    Its been happening since he was born & its driving me nuts. I feel like I spend the entire day trying to get him to sleep


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    This was us too. I found it helpful to 'surrender' and go with it. You can't change it, I tried, so just let it be. She grew out of it. Hugs. It sucks

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    Ive had to accept it but I find it exhausting. Because he only sleeps for 30 minutes each time, its not like I only have to put him down for his 3 sleeps a day. More like 6 times a day & it seems to take forever each time & its so draining & I find myself getting so frustrated.

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    He is waking anywhere from 2-5 times a night, every single night. He is a light sleeper also and we have to play white noise in the background or he will wake up even more !

    Sleep school was a waste of time. They couldn't provide me with any other strategies we hadn't already tried.

    Every nurse had a different viewpoint and expectation of what we should be doing.

    We left being back at square one, with even more sleep deprivation

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    Quote Originally Posted by butterfly81 View Post
    He is waking anywhere from 2-5 times a night, every single night. He is a light sleeper also and we have to play white noise in the background or he will wake up even more !

    Sleep school was a waste of time. They couldn't provide me with any other strategies we hadn't already tried.

    Every nurse had a different viewpoint and expectation of what we should be doing.

    We left being back at square one, with even more sleep deprivation
    Have medical issues been rules out? If so then (if... And only if) you are up for it a bit of tough love may be on order. Best to try this when you/hubby have some time off work.
    - cut all negative sleep aids (white noise, dummy, patting to sleep etc. These are a common cause of night wakings.
    - don't feed overnight
    - for night wakings: no fuss (noise, talking, lights, TV)
    - make sure bub is loaded up with solids (especially protein) during the day and at dinner time.
    - double check bedding. Cold is a common cause of night wakings. All cotton bedding is best. If you need to use a thermostat controlled heater in bubs room.

    Stick with any changes for at least a week: it can take a while for new routines to set in.

    To soften things up you could always try a phased approach (eg slowly cut back on overnight feeds).
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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    How do you deal with the frustration when your baby only sleeps for one sleep cycle (30 minutes) each time during the day & it often takes longer than that to get him to go to sleep (in rocker not cot)?

    Its been happening since he was born & its driving me nuts. I feel like I spend the entire day trying to get him to sleep


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    They grow out of it. I never bothered with trying to put my two to sleep. They usually just passed out on the boob or in pram/carrier/car when it was sleep time. To get them to sleep longer I just resettled them in carrier/car capsule/pram. Neither of my two kids slept in the cot till 6-7mths old.

    Which was good as I was out most days.

    wifey of hubby who is always away. mother of two girls who are always amusing.

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    We are considering a private sleep consultant, as well as getting him checked for sleep apnea.

    It does sound as though he stops breathing for a few seconds, waking him up and then requiring re-settling. I have brought this up with numerous health professionals which they have dismissed.

    We have tried the tough love approach numerous times, last being while my husband was away for the week.

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    12 month regression???
    My son was a great sleeper until 6 months then started getting up 2-10 a night. We seem to sort it out and have a few good months. Now he's taking forever to go down at night and waking at 3am for hours, wide awake. At my wits end. Feel like a terrible mum for not knowing what to do. Need sleep

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    Omg dh im so over you! You are so determined that ds must sleep in his cot during the day that yesterday when we were trying to get a sleep in before we had to go out you spent an hour & a half trying to settle ds in his cot with no luck until I had to intervene & scream at you to put him down in his rocker so that he actually had some sleep. He barely had 30 minutes before we had to go out, because of you.

    Then today, when we are having people over, you do the exact same thing. So now ds has been awake for 3 hours (as opposed to an hour & a half), I just had to intervene again to get him in his rocker (where he now wont go to sleep cause he's so overtired), we just ended up screaming at each other in front of ds & now we'll barely get to see our visitors cause we'll be trying to settle an overtired, losing the plot baby the entire time.

    Why can he not comprehend that we need to prioritise sleep, wherever that may be? I dont care if he wants to try for the cot but there comes a point where you just have to abort & put him down wherever.

    Ive explained that so many times but it just doesnt seem to get through.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    Omg dh im so over you! You are so determined that ds must sleep in his cot during the day that yesterday when we were trying to get a sleep in before we had to go out you spent an hour & a half trying to settle ds in his cot with no luck until I had to intervene & scream at you to put him down in his rocker so that he actually had some sleep. He barely had 30 minutes before we had to go out, because of you.

    Then today, when we are having people over, you do the exact same thing. So now ds has been awake for 3 hours (as opposed to an hour & a half), I just had to intervene again to get him in his rocker (where he now wont go to sleep cause he's so overtired), we just ended up screaming at each other in front of ds & now we'll barely get to see our visitors cause we'll be trying to settle an overtired, losing the plot baby the entire time.

    Why can he not comprehend that we need to prioritise sleep, wherever that may be? I dont care if he wants to try for the cot but there comes a point where you just have to abort & put him down wherever.

    Ive explained that so many times but it just doesnt seem to get through.

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    Massive hugs. You've been having a hard enough time without having to battle DH too. Hope he can see the bigger picture sooner then later.


 

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