Today we had a BBQ at my mums and I was talking to my brother about ttc and my chem in October (I've had 1 m/c and 1 chem this year) and his reply was "have you considered that maybe your only meant to have 2 (kids). I know he didn't say it to be mean but it made me want to slap him.
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27-12-2013 19:45 #1
*Vent* Stupid thing by brother said today.
27-12-2013 19:52 #2
After spending over a year doing fertility treatment, then falling pregnant and ending up with Hyperemesis my dad said something very similar that, people who cant fall pregnant naturally should take it as a sign that they're not designed to have children... It was awful at the time as i'd just been discharged from hospital for dehydration...
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27-12-2013 19:52 #3
Idiot! What an insensitive and ignorant thing to say. I would have slapped him, at the very least verbally.
Sorry you've had a difficult day!
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27-12-2013 19:55 #4
27-12-2013 21:04 #5
Oh ffs what a knob, maybe send him a thought out sms later xoxo
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27-12-2013 21:54 #6
That would of upset me too. Big hugs! I'm sure he didn't mean to upset you.
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27-12-2013 22:09 #7
Bloody brothers! My brother was an *** when I feel pregnant with dd2, he said why bother look what happened to the 1st one! Born 10 weeks prem! My dad and him had a biff on after that!
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