Just wanted to share a sad experience about attitudes from a group of today's 30something males
DH and I had a small group of friends around (mostly male) and one brought his newish girlfriend (we had all met her a few times) with her baby.
She later on breastfed him whilst we were all watching a movie. She was very discreet, covering herself with a wrap. She was in the corner lounge so it wasn't even obvious (or do I thought). Nobody had seen even a hint of boob.
When they left - a couple of hours later so it wasn't fresh in anybody's mind- everyone proceeded to discuss how they couldn't believe she had done that "whipped it out" and why couldn't she have gone into another room? I was horrified at this!! (and same with DH) and I too had breastfeed once or twice previously in front of the same group and I wasn't half as discreet as her!!! Wonder what they have been saying about that?!?
If somebody can't breastfeed discreetly with people they know in the privacy of someone's home what chance do we have? Attitudes haven't changed at all. So sad.
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18-12-2013 15:35 #1
So sad and angry- attitudes still haven't changed!
18-12-2013 15:50 #2
yes, so sad. It is such a shame that even if a mother is discreet while bfing, others will still be offended. I hope she doesn't get to hear the comments. Breastfeeding is challenge enough without having to deal with stupid comments from your "friends '. Marie.
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18-12-2013 15:52 #3Senior Member
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I hope you said something to them!
18-12-2013 15:57 #4
Wow, they need to grow up.
18-12-2013 16:08 #5
People suck. This is why I hate people. Particularly the small minded a-holes that this lot seem to be. It's a food source for her baby, for crying out loud and their trumped up moral code is ridiculous and embarrassing. My ex-DW BF in public and I often would glower at anyone who dared looked at her disapprovingly. My child was going to be fed wherever her mother wanted to feed her and I'd have happily clocked anyone who dared argue with that right.
Grrr, like I said, god I hate people. Ergh.
18-12-2013 16:10 #6
DH and I said hey what's wrong with that, we didn't have a problem with it but you can't change people's attitudes....
Edit: they may learn to tolerate it but will always be thinking its gross or inappropriate
Nobody would of battered an eyelid if she pulled out a bottle.
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18-12-2013 16:18 #8
And my friends are your typical diverse group of males- firefighter, technician, salesman, university educated .....
18-12-2013 16:21 #9Senior Member
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That sucks, wonder how these men will feel/react when it's their wives bf their bubbas
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