We can choose because it is happening within our bodies. It would not be right or fair to let a man determine what happened to my body against my will. Whether he wants the baby or not- it's her body and her decision.
Is it fair for a woman to have a baby unwanted by the man? Yes. Again, because it is her body. His desires do not trump her bodily autonomy, ever.
Men need to take control of their reproduction and use all available contraception. If she says she's on the pill there's nothing to stop them wearing condoms. A PP mentioned a latex allergy excuse- nope- latex free are widely available. If he never wants kids, get a vasectomy.
My view is- all hetero vaginal sex risks pregnancy. All of it. Pregnancy is a possibility every single time. We all knw this and all take this risk knowing what the consequences could be. If you can't deal with the possibility, don't have sex.
+ Reply to Thread
Results 41 to 42 of 42
28-11-2013 13:34 #41
28-11-2013 14:40 #42Senior Member
- Join Date
- Sep 2013
Last edited by KaraB; 28-11-2013 at 14:49.
By flyawayfree in forum Single ParentsReplies: 37Last Post: 29-04-2013, 20:05
By ashkaay in forum General ChatReplies: 5Last Post: 30-01-2013, 12:28
By mystical mumma in forum Step-parents / Blended familiesReplies: 40Last Post: 27-01-2013, 06:13
Impressionable KidsImpressionable Kids are Australia's leader in framed children's memorabilia and specialise in framed baby hand and feet ...
LATESTToilet training: when is the best time to start?Why it is OK for your child to be differentWhat is a blessing way? How is it different to a baby shower?
POPULARWhen can I start giving chores to my children?New baby nursery checklist – a guide to newborn essentialsWhat to pack for labour and hospital – a checklist
FORUMS - chatting now ...
Dr Antony Lighten - Appreciation threadpregnancy and babies through IVF
Funniest thing your kid has said to youGeneral Chat
Rude 10 year old. Ideas?General Chat
Egg/donor code discussion - South AfricaEgg Donation
Happiness thread.General Chat
Awesome Mums of Autistic kids-how many of us are there (#3)????????Parents of Children with Special Needs
Support out there? ED issues, ttcMale Infertility Issues