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    Default My beautiful wee guy xxx

    My gorgeous little 15 month old bub passed away eight weeks ago from pneumococcal meningitis and I feel shocked and completely devastated. I just can't understand how it happened he was his bubbly little self when he woke up on Friday morning but by the early hours of Saturday morning he was being put on ventilator and he was declared brain dead at 3 pm on Monday. I can't get my head around how quickly this illness took him from us and feel soo guilty that I didnt realise sooner that he wasn't just sick with a flu and cost my partner his little fishing buddy. I am writing today as I have just found out that I am 3 weeks pregnant
    and feel like I am spinning out of control it feels too soon and Im scared i wont bond with him/her as all I want is my baby boy back. Has anyone had any similar experience to this?

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    Oh my goodness I am so so sorry for your loss.

    I couldnt read and run so im sorry I dont have more advice.

    Congratulations on your pregnancy (hope thats not inappropriate) must be real mixed emotions for you. Big big hugs xxx

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    I haven't had any experience in your situation, but couldn't read and not post.
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    No words I have could make you feel better, but maybe your beautiful little guy has sent you this baby to help you cope.
    Nothing will bring him back physically, but I'm sure he'll be with you in spirit everyday. 😘😘

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    So sorry for your loss!

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    Just wanted to add - what happened is NOT your fault. Could have happened to any one of us on bub hub. Be kind to yourself and get all the support u can ♥

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    I'm so very sorry for your loss. How absolutely devastating.
    Perhaps this pregnancy is your little boy sending you a soul to help heal your family. I wish you all the best. xx

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    Sorry for your loss...don't beat yourself up,sometimes these thing just happen too fast and its beyond anyones control.I hope this new pregnancy brings you happiness,and to not be afraid to love again take care

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must be going through x

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    Deepest sympathy to you and your family. I can't even begin to imagine your pain.

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    Im so sorry, what a devestating thing to have to go through, losing your small son. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and hurt you have been going through. Love and hugs to your family x


 

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