Crafty that's sad they are so critical and negative. I had a share from my mum but since putting her straight, she hasn't said boo since. Maybe take the advice of the other ladies ans just keep it between you and dh so that there's no chance it would happen again. Its so frustrating I don't know why ppl think they should offer that kind of advice because everyone's situation is so different.
Anuwya, thanks for the advice re ewcm. It'll prob come back next month. Just my body getting used to things
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17-12-2013 13:36 #572
Yeah and then she told me she knows her s*%t and if I get discharged from hospital early she will act as a post partum midwife. I was like LOL.
17-12-2013 13:43 #573Senior Member
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What is wrong with people?! Can't they see that having a baby is a joyous thing? Especially for the grandparents. I'm sorry so many of you can't share the excitement of TTC without harsh judgement.
I didn't want to tell people we were TTC because I knew they'd get super excited and I was worried it wouldn't happen fast enough then there would be pressure. If you know what I mean.
Crafty and cici I hope those close to you come around and don't vent their judgement.
I'm incredibly nervous about our situation. I was feeling so queasy this morning that I asked DH if we could just take it all back. I know I shouldn't say such things and I am so grateful but boy am I scared!
My GP called this morning to touch base on the shock of yesterday. She's so fantastic! She told me not to worry, that my fears are normal and that there isn't anything further I need to do now that I'm having twins.
My gf also called and reminded me that I don't know any better and first time to twins will be fine!
Can't help but have moments of panic though. Such as today. I had a sandwich made in a cafe and I don't know if the salad was washed properly. Now I feel like I've poisoned my babies. I think the hormones are getting to me.
You know what though? One thing I'm having a bit if an issue with is that everyone outside my family who knows is now saying 'well you won't be going back to work anytime soon'. Not sure why, but that bothers me. Oh well I guess I should expect to hear things I don't want to hear and should just ignore them.
Sorry for the rant ladies.
17-12-2013 13:44 #574Senior Member
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BTW crafty can you let us know when you set up your business. I would like to be a customer!
17-12-2013 14:30 #575
Hi ladies I'm reading along intermittently but trying to completely relax about TTC as I don't want to get obsessed.
Coco big huge massive congrats!! That is so very exciting. I have a friend who had twins first and she said the same as your friend, she didn't know any better. She bf till they were one and they had #2 when the boys were only about 18 months. She wants more so obviously she wasn't traumatised!!
Crafty I would love to know about your store, always keen for mcn's and slings although we don't need ANY more!! I don't have fb tho so don't know if I could order stuff??
I'm terrible at keeping up but I'm sorry to those who have had negativity. When we told the IL's we were pregnant with DS the first thing she said was when's the wedding :/ no huge excitement or anything. So annoying. But that's just the way she is, she doesn't show emotion except if she's pi$$ed off!
I haven't got a clue what my cycle is doing but I think by Xmas day I'd be late, I think, so will test then if no AF also so I can have a drink if not UTD!!
17-12-2013 14:30 #576
DH and I have finally decided that we want to start TTC for our 3rd baby. I had a few issues with the birth of DS and DD, so we have spoken to a few OBs to make sure we make an informed choice about going for a third. So it was a big decision - but DH and I finally decided the benefits outweighed the risks. Anyway, we were all set and excited to start TTC this month, but DH is currently on roaccutane and after a specialists appt last week he was told to hold off until his treatment was finished in 4-5months 😪. And we don't want to have Another baby in January/February so that means we can't start until June. I am very dissapointed. I have stopped taking the pill, so now we have to be extra careful. I haven't got AF yet (it took me 3 months after stopping the first time). I guess it will give me plenty of time to work out my cycle. I can't stop thinking about getting PG so I gather I can follow everyone else's journey to fill in sometime.
17-12-2013 14:52 #577
Congrats coco that's amazing!!!!!' I'm so jealous, I'm dying for twinnies!!!! Are there twins in you or dps family?
Not so good news for me, I'm waiting at OB to discuss options and I guess I'm going to end up having a d&c. I'm crapping myself but I guess it will be good to get it done and be done with it.
Have others had a d&c? How long did it take for your body to go back to normal? Is it painful? What's recovery like?
DH, Me and our two boys.
Lost our little squirt 20/11/13.
17-12-2013 15:19 #578
Thanks ladies for your words. I'm so glad I am not alone.
As far as my little venture goes, I am messing around the website it just doesn't look totally professional so I am waiting for it to be fixed before I open it but I will let you know.
17-12-2013 15:20 #579
If you want Cushie tushies though I can do that any which way, you can pick anything from the website
17-12-2013 15:20 #580
Hi Lexim, yes I have had one, it was part of my CIN3 cervical precancerous cell removal in August this year. No dramas, I was under local at the hospital, 6 weeks no sex after and 4 months no TTC. Pretty painless to be honest just uncomfortable, went private OBGYN but public hospital. Its just a day procedure.... We are TTC again now, but just missed the egg last cycle.. better luck for us in January I hope
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