Maybe he's just scared that the results won't come back in his favour... It would be a pretty devastating thing to find out that your swimmers weren't cutting it in the swim race.
Sorry that he's closing you out but it might just be his way of coping.
Big hugs for you xx
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08-11-2013 22:05 #282
Oh gosh calstar sorry he is pushing you away.
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08-11-2013 22:08 #283
Either way, he will tell you in his time. Hopefully he comes back happier than when he left. He is probably really nervous.
09-11-2013 06:58 #284Senior Member
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He was v upset I had done this, even though I thought I was being helpful. I was dying to know!!
Next test I let him do it himself in his own time and I had to wait...
You're not alone @Calstar, men put a lot of pressure on themselves. He's prob just worried sick.
Fx for a positive outcome for you x
09-11-2013 07:22 #285
How were things last night when DH got home from the doctors Calstar?
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09-11-2013 07:47 #286
09-11-2013 08:27 #287Senior Member
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Yeah, bug hugs Calstar, hope everything went well. Sorry about the receptionist too, sounds like you handled it well though (even if you were frustrated!). Hope everythings ok xx
Trio, no accidental peek at the gender bits so still very much a suprise atm!! Will have another scan at 34 weeks because I have a low lying placenta, so will have to try really hard not to see anything then!
09-11-2013 08:53 #288
Calstar sorry to hear about the receptionist and DH being unhelpful in the results department, hopefully he checks on them soon so you will know where you stand. The receptionists stuffed up at our practice years ago and thought they were telling my dad my mums results but they were actually mine so dad knew before me that I actually had cancer cells way to go drs they didn't even bother calling me then as they'd delivered the results to dad.
Trio yay to possibility of twins, I'd like twins next time I would get my wish of having a family of 3 kids straight off then. Although feel bad enough now so don't know how I'd cope with 2 bodies in me.
Nomie yay on AF finishing and hopefully not long before your next BFP
Sorry everyone else I have missed hope you all have a great weekend. AFM I am about to rush off and have an urgent ultrasound of my stomach and bloods as the severe chest pains i have been getting since the beginning of pregnancy have increased and the midwife at the OB's rooms put me under house arrest thursday and friday night from work. Saw GP yesterday and he is pretty certain i don't have a clot or clots as it isn't constant pain but suspects I have developed gall stones or have an inflamed gall bladder something i have never had before but why not add it into the mix with the constant all day MS that has not gone yet and constant headaches. Am starving and by the time i come out at 1130 there will be nowhere i can get breakfast from so will have to be naughty and get whatever food i find first at the shops.
2 weeks till morphology scan and so cannot wait so that can go shopping for pink or blue then off to QLD for a friends baby shower just cannot wait for the break.
09-11-2013 10:50 #289
Oh calstar I hope you are okay. I hope your dh has calmed down and you guys can talk about the results and work through things.
Nomie, it was the first month we were trying but I think 3rd since our miscarriage. I really hope you follow in my footsteps too!
Mrs tugs, oh Lordy triplets! A midwife at our prenatal lessons told us that there were naturally conceived boy triplets in the last group. Imagine the sleep deprivation! 'Trio' I got from there being three of us in our little family when I joined.
Jessie, the sonographer wasn't quick enough to warn us when she started on ds's legs. There was no mistaking that! Much as we tried to convince ourselves we still had a susprise.
I hope your okay wobbler, what would happen if it is a clot? What can they do about gall stones? Rest up you poor chookie!
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09-11-2013 11:30 #290
Hi ladies. Thank you all for the positive vibes & caring words.
I'd love to be coming in here today saying I feel better, or that I have positive news, but I don't.
DH was gone for an hour, so I was dreading his return. When he came home, his face said it all.
I didn't push it, I wanted him to tell me.
He just said "It's not good"
He didn't bring a print out home (which I'm a little frustrated about) so I'm still really confused as to how big an issue we have or where exactly the issue lies.
But the info I did get from him is - His sperm count is high (above average apparently the Dr said) but 40% of those are dead, 30% are below par quality wise, and 30% are ok.
I don't know rates re. mobility, morphology etc because he didn't bring the report home & "there were so many different numbers" DH can't remember everything.
I didn't think 30% good sperm was too bad, but he said the Dr said it wasn't good.
I wish I was there to get all the information first hand.
She wants him to do another test to compare the results, which he'll be doing early this coming week. If the results are the same, he's getting a referral to fertility specialist at Flinders Hospital for further tests or something.
It's been incredibly hard at home since he got back from the doctors. He's being very guarded in what he's telling me. He's not really talking about anything much at all. He won't accept any comments I make to him.
At the moment he's completely shutting me out. Which is actually killing me more than any results.
We're meant to be a team, but he won't let me in and I'm just so confused over the little information I've been given about the results.
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