Given its not the norm now when he's a teenager he'll be the ' different' in the change room, when he's with girls. This was an issue for my high school boyfriend. Everyone was circ'd back then and he wasn't. It sounds like a small issue but it's not to a teenage boy.
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07-10-2013 14:08 #11
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07-10-2013 14:23 #13
I have a cousin who was circumcised as a baby and the procedure went wrong after healing the scar tissue was tightening around the head of his penis to the point that it affected urination. Another op was done and they removed to much. This has affected him both medically and self confidence wise.
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07-10-2013 14:45 #14
Never really thought about it until we found out we're having a boy - and people actually asked about it.. I have 2 friends who had foreskin issues in their late 20's and needed operations etc. hence why one asked. But 2 isn't a big figure and as OP said, they can take pain killers and make they're own choices. It's not something we will do to our son.
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07-10-2013 14:57 #15
07-10-2013 14:58 #16
It's pretty clear that the foreskin causes no issues for babies, children, teen boys or men in this day and age, so why cut it off?
Since all boys are born with a foreskin on their penis then clearly it's meant to be there and has a purpose. I've studied medical science and know how incredible the human body is and that virtually every part of out body has a specific purpose (or did have evolutionarily). It's beautiful, amazing and genius.
To me it's the pain yes, but it's more so the why do it factor... Why change what is naturally perfect?
07-10-2013 15:02 #17
I also find it so interesting how people say 'oh it's a cultural thing' and people accept this but if someone said they don't agree with something else like gay marriage due to religious reasons then that's not acceptable. Both come down to human rights.
Maybe that's not the best example but I can't think of anything else right now to compare it to and I guess my point is that a cultural reason just shouldn't be enough to mutilate our boys. No offense to anyone, it's just MY view. For the record I'm Christian and my mother was a bit shocked when I told her we weren't circumcising my DS and I guess she expected me to due to our religious beliefs.
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I think the BS reasons for circ are put forward as a subconscious smokescreen for the real reasons of culture and heritage... For example Daddy wants bub to be like them and mum wants to at least appear to be going through the process of thinking the issue through 'logically.'
*** I do think there are a small number of selected cases where circumcision is medically necessary, I'm not talking about those cases.
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I have yet to find one good reason why someone should be circ'd (routinely). As I've posted many times.. you don't really need your appendix and some people get appendicitis yet we don't routinely have those out do we?
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07-10-2013 15:13 #20
I'm neither for or against circ for a baby, I think it's the parents choice and they shouldn't be judged on it by others. But I have to disagree with the points from above.
You say that a foreskin causes no issues to males in this day and age? You'd think keeping it clean would solve all the issues? Well my DH was never taught by his parents that you need to roll back the foreskin and clean it (either because they didn't know or felt awkward having the conversation). He's now waiting to have a circumcision as an adult and totally flipping out over it. He has got some sort of scarring and can't retract his foreskin at all. It's painful at times when we dtd without a condom (and even sometimes with one). He will often sit down to pee as he's never sure which direction it'll come out. He's tried the steroid creams and no success. Given his issues I would be leaning towards getting a baby boy of ours getting circ'd. Also DH has a 17yo brother who I imagine would have similar problems given the upbringing (but that's not up to me to ask!)
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