My partner wouldn't even entertain the idea for a second. It's not up to me to 'allow' or not allow him to do anything, but any type of man who wants to find ways to get out of financially supporting his children is no man of mine.
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29-09-2013 11:30 #51Senior Member
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29-09-2013 11:37 #54
Nope. Not at all comfortable with the thought.
Because either biological relationship doesn't matter, and so, why not use someone else's sperm or biological relationship does matter - so absolutely not.
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29-09-2013 11:42 #55
Yep. I'm ok with that
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29-09-2013 11:42 #57
FWIW my DH pays what he's meant to and then some as well as having them kids almost 50/50.
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29-09-2013 11:59 #59Senior Member
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For the getting rid of child support - no. If he no longer saw the children i wouldn't be with him anyway as a father needs to be a father and i have no respect for deadbeats.
Sperm...maybe as there could be a compelling reason (donor match for marrow if an older child was ill for example). So, assuming the kids were in our lives and we knew the only way to get a match was another child...i would consider it for transplant type reasons (but then that brings up a whole raft of other discussions about the life of the child to be born).
If the ex just wanted a child on a whim "because she really wants another one"...then no.
29-09-2013 12:27 #60
If dh and i split and i had a head injury that would cause we to want more children and dh hadnt met anyone else. Id consider asking him.
But if he had a new wife and family lol heck no.
If dh's hypothetical ex asked him to father a hypothetical sibling for their hypothetical child... And we were married and had our children already. No dice.
Mumma to two beautiful boys on the spectrum and one special little girl.
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