So I'm sitting hospital and balling my eyes out......we are on day 3 so I guess it's the baby blues..... I didn't have them with my first and I got upset so quickly just now it's really shocked me. I feel so awful and upset........what do I do???
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22-09-2013 18:57 #1
Baby blues :(
22-09-2013 19:02 #2
I didn't experience them myself but just want to give you big hugs. Congrats on your new bubba
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22-09-2013 19:12 #3
day three for me I was miserable!!! I didn't know what was wrong with me. I also felt sick and anxious. I had a nap. ..a cup of tea. Sounds silly. And a shower. Some fresh air.
Hugs. I felt miserable that day.
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22-09-2013 19:26 #4
Just breathe and hug your new baby, it is a horrible feeling xo
22-09-2013 19:29 #5
Just go with it! I cried for 3 weeks after having my first child, I cried at every opportunity. Now I look back and laugh. Just take your time, especially while you are in hospital with little responsibility.
22-09-2013 20:02 #6Senior Member
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All I can advise is let it out, dont try to bottle it up. Hugs to you.
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22-09-2013 20:39 #7Senior Member
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From about day 3/4 I cried every time my baby cried but for me it didn't last that long. You'll feel better soon
22-09-2013 20:47 #8
Don't fight it, just ride it out xx
22-09-2013 20:58 #9
It's awful, isn't it? The baby blues hit me hard with both boys on night 2. With my second only a few weeks ago I asked the midwives to take him to the nursery for three hours. That small block of sleep changed everything and the world was much brighter on day 3. Is it at all possible to get a few hours break? If not, just be gentle to yourself and bub, and let it all out.
22-09-2013 21:03 #10
Be kind to yourself. I remember the baby blues, they sucked big time.
Just remember to take a deep breath. If you can have a cuppa, a nice shower and even something as washing your hair (if possible!), it helps.
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