Would this upset you?

**Jarylee** · 28-08-2013 11:03

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. In fact id probably encourage him to go, especially if he rarely goes out.

**BlueLips** · 28-08-2013 11:41

Thanks guys. I'll just try make it a nice day with DD and post pone the celebrations to the Friday.

**SimplyMum** · 28-08-2013 13:18

It probably wouldn't bother me- I would go over to Mums, maybe order some take away and get a new movie to watch with a glass or 2.

Actaully- sounds bliss!

**Rocky27** · 31-08-2013 07:56

Originally Posted by BlueLips

Small potatoes- He'll be at work the day of my birthday then out that night.

Honestly, I'd be upset about it. Birthdays are special & I'd want some attention on my birthday at some point, even if it's staying in & enjoying your fav meal together.

I wouldn't be happy with not seeing him the whole day but that's just me.

**cassieh** · 31-08-2013 08:00

Hard one ... I think I would be okay in the lead up.. But then on my actual birthday I think I would be a little disappointed he wasn't there to celebrate with me.

**mrstuilawa** · 31-08-2013 08:10

Can your mum stay at yours instead? That way you're not alone and dd's routine isn't upset

I'd be a little annoyed but given he asked first I'd suck it up and encourage him to go

**SpecialK** · 31-08-2013 08:32

I wouldn't really be upset. As you said he doesn't do much for himself.
We both usually take the day off work if either of our birthdays fall on a work day
and spend the day together doing something nice but I wouldn't be upset if we did it on another day.

**BlueLips** · 31-08-2013 15:14

MrsT- my mum has 2 young kids so not really.

He's going I've told him I'm okay with it. All good, but I think I'll probably feel a little lame on my birthday.

**mrstuilawa** · 31-08-2013 19:17

Ah I forgot about that, sorry!

**BlueLips** · 29-09-2013 16:57

Just thought I'd update.

DH surprised me by booking my birthday off work. He woke me up with presents and said get dressed we are picking up your mum and we're all going for breakfast at a location of your choice

He did go to the concert and all was fine DD and I stayed home and my mum came and stated over at 9pm.

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