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    Default Pregnant with 3rd baby and really depressed!

    I'm not sure what I'm trying to say here as I'm feeling so alone, my partner works away 10 days on but sometimes works 24 days, I feel like the relationship is falling apart he seems to never have time to call or talk to me and is trying to avoid me, he blames it on work but I just don't know I feel so alone and don't want to lose him we were planning a wedding but I doubt there is going to be one

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    You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with him hun.

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    I wish I could but he hasn't called me in the last few days and is avoiding coming home, it's hard to get my head around it all he doesn't want to listen to any texts I send and just ignores them anyway he is 6 hours away and I don't know where everything has gone so wrong..

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    Call his bluff txt him n say if it not willing to even respond to my msgs then what's the point in continuing our relationship if he doesn't want to lose u he will respond

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    Hmmm I think u need to msg him to come home as u need to have a serious talk or u are going to stay with family.

    He is being very selfish by the sounds of it and needs to behave like an adult and comnunicate with u. How can u have a relationship with no communication?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SoThisIsLove View Post
    Hmmm I think u need to msg him to come home as u need to have a serious talk or u are going to stay with family.

    He is being very selfish by the sounds of it and needs to behave like an adult and comnunicate with u. How can u have a relationship with no communication?

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    That's better than my suggestion

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    My husband has been away for 16 days and will be back Tuesday, I have only spoken to him a handful of times, despite it being his birthday. We do text a little bot, it is hard though as he is on night shift and I find it hard to talk in the day with the kids around.

    If you are finding it this hard I think you need to say exactly how you feel, and that he can't be working his r and r anymore as you need to work on the relationship. Is he worried about the money with another babe on the way?

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    I don't think his worried about money with another bub on the way, feels as though his job is more important then his family he use to call and text all the time but the last few days he has become so distant like something has become between us I have told him many times how I feel and I don't get a reply

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    That's really horrible, I'm sorry he is doing this to you, it must be so hard

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