Not sure if this is the right place or not but here goes.
How did you know you marriage was over? Not an abusive partner and no cheating issues I just feel like he is just not that into me anymore iykwim.
DH is a fantastic dad and my best friend but he would rather stay up all night playing on the PC instead of coming to bed with me, we don't spend a lot of time together anymore it use to be once the kids were in bed we would watch tv or a movie now it's him on the PC as soon as he can.
I have entered a comp where I could win a weekend away on Sydney all expenses payed when I was telling DH this the first thing he said was "you can rake your mum ill stay with the kids" after getting over the shock I felt at this I told him mum would take the kids if I won a weekend away I would want to spend it with him to that he just said oh ok and walked away.
This is just some of the things that have been happening lately.
Idk what to do or think
Thanks for taking the time to read this I think I just nenes to get out of my head
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20-06-2013 09:30 #1
How did you know your marriage was over?
20-06-2013 09:57 #2
Have you asked him outright about it? My DH has the same rather annoying tendency to sit on the computer all night. When it gets a bit much I tell him and he makes an effort to reduce his computer time. Maybe you need to just let hom know you're feeling ignored and see if he'll agree to some scheduled time - like a date night out of the house once a fortnight and on the alternate week you stay in and watch a movie together.
Do you all do stuff as a family on weekends?
20-06-2013 10:08 #3
I have talked to him about his computer time, this is an ongoing issue he stops for a while he will make an effort to spend time with me but a week or 2 later it's back to the same old s#it.
we dont get a chance to go out alot he works nights and almost every weekend no family near to watch the kids i would be happy with just time with him, watching tv or even sleeping in the same bed at the same time.
when he spends time with me I am happy, the happiness is still here but it just seems so few and far between
20-06-2013 10:26 #4
No advice just hugs. Feeling the same way about my DP ATM don't know wether to push through or call it quits
20-06-2013 10:42 #5
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