I'm pretty accepting of other peoples choices, I do have my judgy moments though but I do keep them to myself.
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19-06-2013 18:49 #111
19-06-2013 18:49 #112Senior Member
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I judge people who judge parents when they don't even have kids. They just don't have a clue really do they. Oh how I wish I could be a fly on the wall in about a years time
19-06-2013 18:59 #113
I definitely judge parents when they consistently put their own selfish wants above their children (like partying every weekend while their kids are fobbed off on whoever will take them). I've seen it far too much lately and it makes me sad
19-06-2013 19:05 #114
I judge all the time. On what depends on a number of factors. I can normally give people the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes you just can't because they're being so hideous.
I couldn't care less if people want to judge me - I'm 27 with a child who is almost 8... they can judge away, because they don't know anything about us or my ability as a parent.
19-06-2013 19:17 #115
Meh. I judge the boring twats who are judging me for feeding my toddler a happy meal, or sticking the kids in front of the TV, or organising a babysitter once a month so I can go out and get plastered like a teenager.......
19-06-2013 19:20 #116
Yes all the time and about a lot of things mostly about what other posters have already said....
20-06-2013 01:47 #117
I try not to judge as I believe every mum is just doing their best for them and their family. Apart from abuse/neglect scenarios of course. And often we don't know the full story of what's going on in each persons life. Perhaps a mum has pnd and has to put her baby in the cot to cry so she doesn't lose it. This mum is going through enough without receiving if judgement for allowing her baby to CIO. She needs support not judgement. That's the attitude I try and take... Doesn't always work, but I try!!
20-06-2013 02:24 #118
I believe it's mean to NOT put a baby in a routine. Flying by the seat of your pants isn't a great option IMO
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20-06-2013 04:02 #119Senior Member
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I judge parents who smugly consider themselves 'experts' on not only their babies (but given that they can't seem to keep their story straight even about that, who would know?) but everyone else's babies after about 5 seconds of parenting.
Honey, Let's meet back here in a few years and the pair of us will giggle over a slice of humble pie & just how much we all have to learn in this parenting gig
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20-06-2013 06:08 #120
Some babies have their own natural routine, some babies need to be shown how to do things like go to sleep so they can be healthy, some babies and parents are happy and thriving with no routine. Every baby is different, every family is different. Some parents need to return to work after a short time and actually need enough sleep to be able to perform their duties.
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