My therapist advised me to make a gains and losses list for each possible decision, and be totally selfish about it, not thinking about how my decisions might impact on others, iykwim. Well, I did it, and each decision has more losses than gains. So, that was brilliant! This may sound dumb, but I often find just flipping a coin helps you realise what you actually feel.
Ultimately, you will make a decision, and the decision you make will be the best thing you knew how to do at that moment in time, and shouldn't be regretted. And that goes for me too x
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27-06-2013 12:43 #101
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27-06-2013 13:15 #103
Suing is not just about financial gain - in many cases the amount isn't even worth it. It's about making people accountable for their actions and ensuring the same mistakes are not made again.
You sound like a very strong woman, I could never go through with a pregnancy under these conditions, so you have my full respect & thoughts. But what if the same happens to a poor 14yr old girl? Everyone involved should absolutely be forced to face - and change - their failed procedures.
Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy. I wouldn't worry about the gap, you will be fine! To be honest I'd say that aspect is the least of your worries. Hugs to you and your DD.
27-06-2013 18:38 #104
Flipping a coin sounds more fair and less emotionally challenging than the current process.
I think it's a had to be there moment where the officer in charge was concerned I don't blame the staff for being how they were considering how that officer's behaviour was.
27-06-2013 20:10 #105
Was it a private or public hospital SoC?
27-06-2013 22:25 #106
The hospital would surely have procedures in place where they would have some sort of checklist, where more than one person signs off. If none of this was done, they should be completely liable. It shouldn't just come down to one nurse & if it does then that's scary.
27-06-2013 22:52 #107
28-06-2013 20:15 #108
28-06-2013 20:17 #109
28-06-2013 20:34 #110
Wow. I've just read this thread and couldn't not comment. Our house was broken into while we were out and I still have a hard time! We have dogs, security system, locks on locks on locks etc and that was just from someone coming into our house and taking material possessions! Not physically assaulting me. You are amazing! I am so sorry you had to go through this. It's shocking they were young kids, this world is getting so incredibly bad. I hope that things somehow sort themselves out for you and you can somehow be happy again. Xox
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