Agree with all the pp's
His behavior is not your fault you are doing your best and need to do what's best for you and your DS
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11-06-2013 19:26 #11
11-06-2013 19:29 #12
Who wouldn't be depressed with a baby, sleep deprived and a w@nker of a husband??
Seriously, I think the best solution is seperation. What kind of man makes a baby, then carries on like this? And how do you mess with his seed? He sounds like a narcissistic child tbh.
11-06-2013 19:37 #13
11-06-2013 19:40 #14
Sheesh, he sounds like a tool..
If this was me, I'd hurry that separation up and get on with enjoying life. It's too short to be around negative people.
Good luck and you're not a monster.. You sound like a tired Mummy who has just had a gutful..
11-06-2013 19:50 #15
Huge hugs x Have you got anyone you can go and stay with for a few weeks and clear your head? Your husband is carrying like a complete pig and you do not need his manipulative behaviour or threats in your life.
11-06-2013 19:56 #16
And FYI I'm 34 and a single mum (also pregnant via donor sperm), so probably spinster territory. And I can tell you I would take spinster over your situation. Who needs that drama in their life?? I wouldn't want someone so negative and manipulative around my kids.
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11-06-2013 20:17 #18
I'm also a spinster and love my life, wouldn't trade it for anything
11-06-2013 20:23 #19
Thanks for your responses. Gosh, I hope I haven't offended anyone with the spinster thing. I just mentioned it as one of the thoughts I've been having. I do get mildly excited sometimes at the idea of calling all the shots. It kind of appeals to my control freak tendencies :-)
I should have clarified, I am seeing a therapist for my PND, and have been since February, but I haven't really shared these feelings about my son with her. I'm a bit too ashamed, but maybe it's just time to be brave in lots of areas of my life, I think.
Thank you again. Supportive words go a long way for me at the moment.
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