I am a big believer that things will work out if they are meant to be. We've been through some tough times financially, but we've always been very fortunate with what we have and what we can provide for our kids. Our kids have never gone without, they were planned. Most people I know who have atleast some struggle with finances have always been more kind-hearted people, people I can relate to and them and their kids don't take things for granted. I love the quote "When there is a will, there is a way!" I think if you really want something so much you will make it work regardless. We've hit some real low points in life but things have always picked up again. "If it's not ok, it's not the end" I could go on... I can't stand people who think that because they have a lot of money means they have more right to have children then people who struggle, if you can love and feed that child then nothing else matters.