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12-08-2016 11:35 #821
12-08-2016 11:48 #822
@MaybeBabyIVF I am so sorry. I hope you are recovering well and making peace with it. Absolutely heartbreaking. Are you going ok?
I found out today at 6wks+2 that Im about to miscarry. Just waiting on the pessaries to get out of my system so it can start. We have been ttc#2 for over 7yrs. Still no break..
12-08-2016 12:27 #823
I hope for your sake it's straight forward for you. I had to be induced which the. Took 18.5hrs and placenta didn't come away so then needed a dnc on top of everything else.
12-08-2016 12:52 #824
@MaybeBabyIVF I cant imagine how you are feeling. All my mc's have been early around 6wks. What you experienced is beyond comprehension. I always think that there are others worse off and that puts things in perspective for me..
12-08-2016 15:36 #825
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10-09-2016 20:06 #826
Does it ever get better? On Tuesday it will be 5 weeks since I lost my darling baby at 12 weeks. I almost feel like I have PTSD every time I see a pregnant woman, an announcement, god, even a baby.
I am reminded of a quote from one of my favourite films: "If the sun were to explode, you wouldn't even know about it for 8 minutes because thats how long it takes for light to travel to us. For eight minutes the world would still be bright and it would still feel warm.
It was a year since my dad died, and I could feel my eight minutes with him were running out." The further away I get from the day my baby died, the worse I feel.
I feel like I can physically feel the loss from the tip of each strand of hair on my head, down to my toes. Does it ever get any easier?
12-09-2016 09:54 #827
Take each day as it comes some days it needs to be hour by hour and do what you can. There is no right or wrong way to grieve as long as you keep putting 1 foot in front of the other.
12-09-2016 11:14 #828Senior Member
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Allow yourself to grieve for your bub. Take care x
12-09-2016 12:44 #829
12-09-2016 13:05 #830Senior Member
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@FeelinLucky yes it will get better. You will never forget your loss but with time you'll learn to cope with it. I've had 5 miscarriages and all have been very long and painful. But I just tell myself that they were not meant to be and something better is coming up for me. Although it's not always possible to remain positive.
My advice to you is to please try to rest and take care of your diet as much as possible. Try to do something fun or anything that you like doing on a daily basis. For me, walking outside helped a lot. It is difficult to see women around you getting pregnant easily. At the time of my most difficult miscarriage, soon after I got the news of my Sil's pregnancy and then 3 girls at my work got pregnant at the same time. I was very happy for them but you can't help but wonder why it's not happened for you so easily. Please hang in there and take care of yourself. Feel free to come here and vent or complain as much as you want. Oh and I also had counselling which also helped.
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