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    I just wanted to share my story so far, as I guess for me it's about to get worse. We've been trying for quite awhile (years ) and this was my first positive pregnancy test. I got my first positive at 4 weeks (so I'm pretty certain at least my dates can't vary too much as it would have been impossible to get positives when I did...especially by a couple of weeks.) off to the doc have had two lots of blood tests the first being 1900 the next being 11000 a week apart... Booked in for scan in week 9. I had a tiny bit of light pink/brown spotting at 6 weeks. I was a tiny bit worried but when no pain or blood showed up I assumed was all good. Turn now to my scan which occurred on Thursday. Which should've been 9 weeks. The ultrasound tech at first commented I didn't have enough water in my bladder so he bought some time by looking over my ovaries. Finally got to my uterus and spent ages with the screen away from me (my husband could see) and he was searching. He finally told me the sac was measuring 7 weeks and that he wanted to get his supervisor and for me to sit tight. He asked me again of my last period etc and then asked about any spotting. The supervisor came in, after what felt like ages. I thought they might have wanted to try transvaginal to get a clearer image. But they assured me what they saw and the fact it was empty, was sign enough that I had a non viable pregnancy.

    At this stage I'm just a bit sad. I'm trying to wait for my body to receive the message naturally and deal with this itself. I was so hopeful this was finally our baby, so I'm a little bit heartbroken. I'm glad it didn't happen later after we had seen a heartbeat and all... I just thought it was our turn and things were finally falling into place. Trying to take solace in the fact I got pregnant at all, and that I will be able to continue losing the weight I have been shifting.

    Having had a few more days to think about it all.... I'm beginning to wonder if I'm ever going to get a baby..... Sigh..... Mainly last night and today have had a tiny bit of what I would call period cramps.... Super minor though..... I think I was hoping in the back of mind there might have been a mistake..... I'm happy to wait a little bit for things to occur naturally (as have a full on week at work coming up.... Time will tell I guess)

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    I partly just wish I had started bleeding to have found out rather than an empty ultrasound.....sitting around and waiting sucks..... But I don't want a d&c or medication

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    Lilyloubelle, I'm really sorry to hear your news. No word can describe the pain. Take your time to grieve and heal. I hope your body cooperate and does what it needs to. Big hugs to you

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    How are you going @lilyloubelle? I think my bub might have passed away now as my lower back is really starting to ache like last time (I have a tilted uterus so I feel my pain in my back) and my belly feels full and really heavy like I'm gearing up for a massive period. This is all exactly what I felt before my last natural m/c. Bit of diarrhoea also. I'm set up with Panadeine Forte so hopefully that helps as I did it with no pain relief last time. Emotionally, I've been pretty down in the dumps today I hope you're doing ok and have lots of support xx

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    I'm doing ok. Only tiny bit of cramping.... Nothing major... Nothing really yet. I'm not sure how long it will take my body to realise its empty.... :s

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    Ladydee, so sorry you are feeling down. I hope you feel better everyday.

    It has been 4 months since my mmc. I'm actually doing ok now. Not angry anymore. It's going to be harder as it gets closer to my due date but need to stay strong

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilyloubelle View Post
    I'm doing ok. Only tiny bit of cramping.... Nothing major... Nothing really yet. I'm not sure how long it will take my body to realise its empty.... :s
    I hope you have support around you. If not, please talk to us here. PM me if you want. I had a mmc at 12 week scan after seeing heartbeat at 7 week.

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    I do have support around, it is just nice to talk to people who r going through it, or have been through it. At this stage i still really feel pregnant, so just a waiting game really.

    I'm booked into see the dr on Wednesday.... Def want to try natural route as long as they think is a good idea....

    Part of me is hoping it was a mistake... But ..... I keep looking at the scans and not sure it's even possible
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    Quote Originally Posted by Minib View Post
    Ladydee, so sorry you are feeling down. I hope you feel better everyday.

    It has been 4 months since my mmc. I'm actually doing ok now. Not angry anymore. It's going to be harder as it gets closer to my due date but need to stay strong
    Thanks @Minib I was reading along for part of your loss and cried for how you were feeling going into your D&C I'm so sorry, but I'm very glad to hear you're feeling more at peace about it now. I had a D&C at 11 weeks on March 11th from a missed m/c also, worst time ever I had seen a heartbeat at 7 and 9 weeks so was just starting to relax into that pregnancy.

    I'm 7 weeks tomorrow but I'm not sure if bub is still hanging on or not. My 4th hCG on Friday showed slowed up growth no where near doubling I agree about what you said about it being tough to get through the due date/s I've thought about that often and was really hoping I'd be pregnant with my sticky take home bub before then but now I'm not so sure it's going to happen. I've got the 15th August, 30th September and now the 26th January to get through I was planning to do something to remember them on the 1st due dates and then try to let them go but we'll see if I can. Hope you're blessed with your take home bubba very very soon xx

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    It must be so hard experiencing this more than once


 

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