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    Default Have you ever cut off a family member?

    And if you have, why? And how did other family members react?

    Ive had minimal contact with my MIL for a while now but after another abusive phone call in which she threatened to kill herself if we didnt do what she wanted ( a minor favor which we offered to do the next day) ive decided after years of this type of abusive behaviour and for my own emotional health that i dont want anything to do with her.

    Its my only option unfortunately.
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    I haven't spoken or seen any of my family since my daughter was 2 days old. It's a long long long story that would take an hot or so to write but it's the best decision I have ever made and I have no regrets what so ever. What my mum especially put me through .... I will never forgive ,ever!

    Sometimes we're better off without "family" there I honestly Believe that it true in my case anyway



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    Being emotionally toyed with takes its toll and there's only so much a person can take before they've had enough. To me t doesn't matter If your family or not f their willing to be like that I'm willing to cut them out of my life, simple.



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    Agreed, im at my wits end and ive gone above and beyond to try and help her but she continues to throw it in mine and DHS faces, manipulate, abuse and belittle.

    Im done. Sorry you have had to deal with it too, its incredibly stressful.

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    I haven't personally, but I can see how sometimes it would be necessary.

    I'm so sorry

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    I cut off one set of grandparents.

    They were horrible to me, my mum, sister and dad.

    After he said some very horrible things about me and my family I decided to cut him out as did my sister. My nana would always cry and say we have ruined our lives and her life and we are so ungrateful ect.

    I am better off without them and without their comments in my life.

    Family shouldn't bring you down, they should raise you up.

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    I have. I didn't care too much how other family members took it, tbh. I assumed if they were happy to sit back and let family members abuse and belittle me they can go too.

    However, I've never classed blood as ample reason to call someone family, so might be easier for me than others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennaisme View Post
    I have. I didn't care too much how other family members took it, tbh. I assumed if they were happy to sit back and let family members abuse and belittle me they can go too.

    However, I've never classed blood as ample reason to call someone family, so might be easier for me than others.

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    So true.

    And this last episode was after my thread and discussion with you yesterday!

    Ive finally had enough.

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    Jennaisme, a few of the things you said to me yesterday stuck with me and i realised, i have a choice here! I dont have to put up with it, so im not.

    I feel better already! So, thanks.

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    Excellent. :-D I'm glad you're feeling better today.

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