Trying not to push him away but my brain says I need space but then I just cannot bring myself to push him away as he is dealing with a lot too.
Sucks so bad about the divorce as now it wont be final until a few days before we are supposed to be married so looks like that isn't happening anymore
DF said he is going to buy me a doppler today so that cheered me up a bit
Not long until you start leave, bet you are happy with that! Hope your classes are going well
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23-05-2013 08:43 #611
23-05-2013 08:50 #612
Michelle, sounds like your hormones taking over. I agree with Smurfy, try not to push DF away. Talk to him when you are feeling less emotional about what you are struggling with and let him do the same. Make sure he knows that its mostly the hormones speaking. Yay for getting a doppler.
Smurfy: I know I need to pack it but it makes it so real. I even woke up this morning saw the basinette and had an "oh crap I'm going to have a baby" moment. DP just laughed at me and said I'd be fine. Same as people asking me what we still need for bub. I have no idea what I need to begin with so "still need" is just a really stressful question lol.
23-05-2013 08:51 #613
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23-05-2013 08:52 #614Senior Member
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Men don't get it. I've only blown up once (and yes it was extremely petty). DH slept on the couch that night cos he couldn't deal with me. Since then, I have tried so hard to stay calm.
That sux about your wedding. Why can't things just be simple?
2 more weeks of work til my leave. If I go back to work after leave, I have 19 working days til mat leave. If not, I only have 12.
23-05-2013 09:03 #615
He knows I am hormonal but he says that I am not explaining myself enough when I say 'I am not happy' I thought that was pretty straight forward.
I am still sick but better than the last few days but I would have liked to have one more day off just to not push myself and make myself worse and DF practically kicked me out of bed and told me to go to work which made me cry because I felt he was being insensitive. Stupid men; I will remember this for when he has a man flu or something! ha.
23-05-2013 09:08 #616
I am impressed you have managed to stay calm, i need some of your patience I think
I don't know. I have asked myself that question a lot and never got an answer. Doesn't help that his ex is a nut job who tries to make his life a misery even now.
ooh I would so be doing the 12 days! I couldn't take a week off get used to it and then go back to work and then start leave again I would go crazy!
23-05-2013 09:08 #617
Just popping my head in with hope that I get to stay this time
23-05-2013 09:34 #618
23-05-2013 09:36 #619
Hi everyone! I have been reading along but hate replying on my phone which was my only choice while the Internet got connected in our new house. Now Internet is back on you won't be ale to get rid of me
Oh Channy I am so excited to see you here. I will admit I stalk the other thread to keep up with everyone's TTC journey and I am so pleased to see your good news. I have a good feeling about is one
MCB - I can totally relate to the crazy pregnant hormones. Over the past few weeks while we have been moving I have just been crying over silly things and picking fights with DH and not coping very well with DD. I have finally come good in the past week as we have become more settled but e mood swings have been rough. I have been keeping a pregnancy journal (not on here just a written one) and have found writing in there to be really helpful for sorting things out in my head.
ToniS - I am also Struggling to start packing my hospital bag. It just feels like it will make it all very real that soon I will be having another baby. I have told myself I have to pack it this weekend.
FTM - Valentina is gorgeous.
Sorry having a mind blank so that's it for personals at the moment...damn pregnancy brain!
AFM- well starting to get everything sorted in the baby's room. I just need to do more washing but annoyingly it's raining here in Sydney and will be for a few more days. Starting to stock up my freezer for after the birth. So far I have cooked a lot of toddler friendly food for DD plus a lasagna for all of us. Planing to cook and freeze a quiche and Beef stew over the weekend. It seems like the list of things to do before the baby arrives is never ending.
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