So sorry to read of your loss. Wishing you all the best xx
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07-05-2013 22:38 #21
07-05-2013 23:30 #22
That is heartbreaking and I do hope you have lots of love and support around you xxx
07-05-2013 23:49 #23
I am so so sorry for your loss darling. I lost my buba a month ago at 30 weeks. I know it's not the same but feel free to pm me if you like.
Do whatever you feel when you feel it. Eat comfort food, cry, sleep. You can feel whatever you like don't get caught up in how you should feel because other women have felt that way.
Be kind and gentle with yourself
08-05-2013 06:15 #24Senior Member
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
08-05-2013 07:52 #25
So sorry for your loss
just do whatever feels right, whenever it feels right....x
08-05-2013 14:29 #26
Busy Baking my rainbow, due July 2013
08-05-2013 14:35 #27Junior Member
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My thoughts are with you and your family.
08-05-2013 21:32 #28
Thanks for your comments. I will see how I feel about naming the baby when we find out gender. Don't think DH will be that into it, he is a "get on with it" type of person.
I have booked an appointment with our fertility specialist as I am wanting to be pregnant again as soon as possible. Our IVF journey has been pretty blessed so far and I am worried our luck is starting to run low.
All I want is to be pregnant with a baby due in October but that isn't going to happen...
10-05-2013 17:46 #29
So sorry Bedlover it's a horrible experience. I lost our twins due to a staph infection as well. I didn't have flu symptoms but the night before I lost them I had really high fever, vomiting and the shakes. I went into early labour and delivered them naturally. They are the only babies I have had and the first time in a delivery room. I bet like you, I have no idea where the infection came from. So sorry you have experienced this as well. The only thing you can do is be sad for now and try again when you are ready. I had to wait 3 mths hopefully you can try sooner. We weren't going to name the babies but glad we did, I really recommend you do to give them an identity, they had beating hearts.
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10-05-2013 19:39 #30
Rachael I can't believe this has happened to both of us. It is such a random thing, I keeping asking "how did this happen", "what did I do wrong", "what should I avoid doing next time" - and all the answers are the same... we will never know and it is just bad luck. Maybe it is more common than I realised, but my OB didn't seem to think so.
Sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way.
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