I was very lucky that I have had no bleeding at all. I have however have been very very sick with morning sickness and have been hospitalised 3 times which always made me scared that the babies weren't getting enough sustenance but they were fine it was just me that felt like ****!! The stitch sounds like a good idea and will help ease your mind. It's great to hear that you wouldn't be at the same risk of anything bad happening again. As daunted as we are about having twins we are absolutely thrilled that we are and would not change our decision to put 2 back even if we could. Xxx
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07-05-2013 08:42 #21Member
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07-05-2013 09:33 #22
It always surprises me when a fs just keeps going on and on without calling for a break and doing testing to decide the next step. I'm also a bit confused that your fs said it had to be chromosomal? We were given several reasons as to why development might stall in the early stages.
Please push your fs to do additional testing on yourself and dp. We thought our only hurdle to overcome was dp's vasectomy, I'd had a miscarriage at 12/13 weeks when I was younger and we all took it as proof everything was fine. We had 3 tf with no success when my fs became suspicious and ordered tests. 6 months later I was being treated for nk cells and MTHFR and fell pregnant . I really believe I'd still be cycling and heartbroken if my fs hadn't been so cautious.
for you .
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08-05-2013 09:39 #24
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08-05-2013 09:43 #25
Rachel I hope you get the answers soon and that long awaited BFP...
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08-05-2013 11:48 #27
Good luck rachael. I hope you get the answers you have been wanting. This is such a tough journey. Keep us in the loop. I would love to know what the nk FS has to say.
08-05-2013 12:02 #28Senior Member
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Oh Rachael how terrible for you. Is there any chance of moving to a different FS? Are you in a big city where that is possible?
08-05-2013 13:27 #29Senior Member
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Hey Rachael - I remember you from when you were expecting the twins and have often though about you as I remember when you told us about losing them.
Good to see you are up to trying again, I really hope you get your dream this time. I was going to suggest a new FS too until I read you are already with one. I think if you are happy to take the chance of having both implant then go with the two. Just make sure you are in the right headspace within yourself to be trying again.
Hope that I get to read that all went well for you soon.
08-05-2013 20:34 #30
Hi Rachael, I am sorry you are still looking for answers to the horrible pain of infertility and loss.
I am glad you are seeking some NK cell testing as it will you piece of mind about whether you are doing everything possible.
Re: the theory of transferring two helping with implantation I didn't believe it until it worked for me.
I had 3 transfers with high quality blasts 1 x each time - all bfn.
On the 4th transfer I put in the last 2 frozen blasts and it worked. I did have a slightly different protocol including an Endo biopsy and aspirin but I do think 1 emby helped the other. I feel fortunate that I have a singleton pregnancy as I didn't want any associated risks of twins but to be honest I was desperate so I took that risk anyway.
I don't know how I feel about the idea that the embies that dont implant have chromosome issues- this would mean in my case 14/15 embryos were faulty!
My FS described it as a bit of a lottery - the right embryo has to implant into the right uterine environment + some magic.
If this is the case if your gut instinct and heart can handle a double transfer again then perhaps its something to consider.
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