Dunno what to say... Feel numb
Had BT. Hcg 29 Pregesterone 75. Not doubling. Come off pressaries ? FS advices
not looking good
What do I do with that? Science says NO. My brain is confused
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25-03-2014 08:10 #551Senior Member
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25-03-2014 15:22 #552
Precious: Oh Luv.... I'm so sorry to read that your numbers haven't picked up like they should. Unfortunately, it looks like your embryo isn't viable for whatever reason. It has obviously implanted as it's sending some HCG into your system, but is failing to develop normally. It could be a blighted ovum, but it's hard to tell as it's too small to see what's going on in there. Either way, it's abnormal for whatever reason and unlikely at this point to continue on to produce a healthy baby
I'm telling you this because I want you to understand that this is nothing you have done or haven't done that's caused this, it's just unfortunately one of those things that happens and happens to a lot of us girls. It's a real kick in the guts I know Luv, to get so close only for the rug to be pulled out from underneath you...It's heartbreaking and so unfair
The only positive as many other ladies have pointed out on the other threads is that your body can get pregnant and knows what to do, so that in itself is one less thing to worry about. You know your body is not going to reject an embryo, nor do you have implantation issues etc, it's just a matter of getting a healthy embryo in your oven Luv. At this moment in time, that's F.A. of a consolation I know, but when you've recovered from this shi**y experience, I'm hoping you will find some reassurance knowing that.
Has your FS told you to stop the pessaries and see what happens?? Or is he wanting to do another BT is a couple of days?? Know that I'm thinking of you and sending lots of hugs and healing vibes your way. Whatever you have to do to grieve this situation is ok too..cry, vent, rant and rave...whatever works for you girl but most of all, it's important that you and your DH pile on the love and kindness to each other and yourselves. When you're ready, we're all here for you.....
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25-03-2014 16:17 #553
Precious, sorry to read your update. I went through similar with my miscarriage but it went on for weeks and I had to have a D&C. It's very tough, but take solace in what BiB said... you know you can get preggers now, you just need a hood strong egg.
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25-03-2014 16:19 #554
A quick update from SA... donor produced 12 eggs! I'm happy with that result, looking like transfer is Saturday.
25-03-2014 19:29 #555
Precious I am so sorry u r going through this, just so unfair hope this gets easier for u soon, thinking of u xo
bib that must be annoying u r still waiting on the call! Glad to hear your last apt went well
Emski great news on 12, hope to hear some great fert rates.
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25-03-2014 21:14 #556Senior Member
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@emski72. That's awesome news. Sooo happy for you xxx
ladies. Thank you for your good vibes and great wishes
luv u all xx
Im more confused than ever now. Had my checkup with FS and he says I can start pessies again and have a BT on Thursday and we'll see what happens. WTF
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26-03-2014 05:58 #557
Emski: for the dozen eggies and a big High Five to the ED!!! Good job!! and for good fertilisation results!! Am sure you'll have some good blasty's to transfer and maybe a few for the freezer too if you're lucky Are they going to give you an update on how the embies are progressing and how many are you planning on transferring Luv??
Precious: WTF indeed??? Well, I'm confused. I would of thought your FS would've told you to stop the pesseries and let nature take its course, but he's obviously going to allow it to play out whichever way it will. Fair enough. All you can do is wait for BT on Thurs and see where you're at then. My advice is to prepare for the worst, but hope for the best if you know what I mean
Booboo: Thanks for your well wishes girl Yep, is frustrating allright!! Will speak to my sister today and get her on to the case. How are you going?? Counting down the days I'm sure
Hello to all the other ladies too.....Kenta, Mrs P and Emski.
AFM: 17wks today. All going well. Not too much else to report at this stage girls. Have a good day lovelies and until next time................
26-03-2014 20:25 #558
Precious, hope u r doing ok this must be hard, hang in there, another day, hoping for the best for u xo
Bib 17 weeks how exciting must be great counting down the weeks before u know it she will be here
Yes over this waiting already Bib, just want to get started! Still not sure whether to do the Saizen. How long did dh take to heal from the TESA bib? Dh is taking a bit longer than I would expect to heal, he says it's like the sore is still a bit open, that can't be right. I said for him to call the specialist but he won't! He won't let me either, it's not infected but still a bit of a worry
hubby just left away 2 weeks this time, swapping shifts for the footy, mad dockers supporter
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27-03-2014 05:49 #559
Precious: Good luck today Luv, I'll be thinking of you
Booboo: It took a couple of weeks for my DP's "nether regions" to fully heal up. There was a lot of bruising after the last TESA on Cycle 4 was performed (as my FS tried in several different spots more than usual), so he was sore for a lot longer thus taking longer to heal. As long as your DP hasn't got an infection and the wounds have closed and are healing (have you had a good look down there??) I'd say it's internal bruising and that can take a few weeks to heal. If he's still sore when he gets back from this trip, make him go to the doctors just to be sure all is well
As for the Saizen, you've still got a little bit of time up your sleeve to decide on that one Luv. I understand your impatience to start again, I used to feel the same way, won't be long now girl and you'll be on your way Yes, I can't believe I'm almost at the halfway mark now, the last few weeks seem to have flown by
Emski: Any word on fertilisation rates Luv??? and
Big Hello to Kenta, Mrs P and Domiffy.
Ok my lovelies, must go for now. Take care and until next time..................
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27-03-2014 21:40 #560
Bib haven't had a real good look but I will be when he is back! Hopefully it's well and truly ok by then
With the Saizen I'm worried if this dosent work with it, that will be it I can't see FS wanting to go much further with it although he did say he is happy to do egg collections while I am I get the vibe though if u know what I mean
Precious thinking of u today hun x
Emski how r things going over there, keeping my fx u got some great fert rates from the 12. Hope u don't mind me asking what made u decide SA for egg donor over any other country, due to cost etc/higher success rates? Also do u know roughly what is the cost for embryo adoption?
Hi to the other ladies too hope u r all keeping well, have a nice w/e all x
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