Meh... Cd14 I think, just waiting to o... Cycle 4. Getting upset and frustrated as I keep seeing and hearing of pregnancy announcements and its killing me... I should have a 3 month old little girl in my arms but instead I have 6 months worth of grief... Grr!!
After this cycle I'll be not trying for a month or 2 due to my best friends wedding... Then it'll be right back on the TTC bandwagon... Thinking of getting my pill again for those 2 months as when I finished it up last time I fell straight away... Who knows if it'll work...
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15-05-2013 16:17 #61
15-05-2013 16:20 #62
How interesting that there's several of us at this age now starting to go down the fertility specialist route! Good to have the support though
Wish, we're waiting for our first appointment on the 28th. I know we're in for some blood tests and I'm having a pelvic ultrasound also. I've got my fingers crossed we might be able to bypass some of the preliminary stuff since I have been tracking my cycles for so long and they are very regular, clear ovulation, etc, and DH's last SA was only a few weeks ago (without much change from the initial 3 month post vas reversal testing).
I've been wanting to ask, how strict are FS's on when you can and can't dtd just for fun?? tbh I get rather antsy after just a few days break, so believe it or not I'm actually quite concerned about that aspect
16-05-2013 10:07 #63
Arlais, I hope you get to bypass all the testing, I thought we would but no such luck, we were like you I had been tracking for 6 months and had had ultrasounds and blood tests done weeks before with the GP. But no FS pretty much ignored everything we gave him and said that their testing is a lot more in depth. So Ive pretty much paid for two sets of tests!
Cant answer your question about DTD never really thought about it!
16-05-2013 11:57 #64Senior Member
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Wishnhope - so basically my history is we went off the pill in May 2012, my cycles have been irregular since. It has been 12 months now but only 9 cycles (32, 29, 49, 32, 36, 46, 35 ,36 & 43, currently CD29) In April I went and asked a doctor a few questions (as my normal doctor is hard to get into) and he sent me for an internal and external ultrasound. The results came back as possible PCOS so he sent me for many blood tests. Went back to get my results and saw a lady doctor and she said basically 2 out of the 6-10 blood tests show a POSSIBILITY of PCOS but not anything serious. SHe told us to keep trying for a few more months and see how we go. I am realistically scared to go to the doctor and get a referral to an FS as then it is surreal that something could be wrong. It's not meant to be this hard just to want a child and happiness in my life :-(
So basically I am waiting for AF and if it doesn't come by CD45 I will test andif BFP I probs won't believe it hahaha and if BFN will make sure I see my original doctor get a referral to FS and also get DH tested. I just really wanted it to happen naturally :-(
16-05-2013 12:08 #65
I know how you feel Smash its frustrating and terrifying all at the same time, we're young and this is supposed to be simple: BD at the right time and you get a baby! WRONG! Getting preggers is soo much harder than I ever imagined! But having problems isnt the end of the world and so many people seek IVF to help create their families.
I want a baby soo badly and have done for such a long time it feels like everyone will have kids before me and we'll never be happy. But we mustnt give up hope, natural miracles happen all the time and if not IVF might give you the baby and happiness you wish for.
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17-05-2013 10:44 #67
Smash you may as well just bite the bullet and get a referral. Just because you see the FS for an initial appointment and testing doesn't mean you will need to go ahead with treatment.
I was reluctant to go back to the doc to get hubby's 12 month SA, because I didn't want to face the possibility that we would have to go through this. Waiting for our first appointment now, I'm actually quite happy that we are going ahead with this - it does take some of the element of chance out of it - at least we know that sperm and egg will definitely meet, then all we have to hope for really is that it will continue growing strong and find somewhere to burrow in when it gets put back
17-05-2013 15:23 #68
Well in 3 wks I will no longer be 27 and still not bloody utd
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