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14-04-2013 12:51 #21
14-04-2013 13:14 #22
14-04-2013 13:49 #23
Speaking of DHs - how do you lovely ladies help your DH to cope with the disappointment of a BFN each month.
He is very positive this month, I'm not so confident & I'm not sure how much longer he can deal with BFNs.
14-04-2013 14:11 #24
Yeah I know that the bum in the air won't necessarily do anything - but it makes me feel much more like I'm doing everything I can anyway
14-04-2013 14:13 #25
14-04-2013 18:26 #26
This is obviously a very tricky one.
I'm getting nervous as af due in 2 days & starting to get crampy. After a BFN from Round 1 Clomid, DH was very upset as he assumed it was a magic pill that would fix everything & it didn't. He is sure that something is very wrong. I keep trying to say that every BFN brings us closer to a BFP & that's really all I can do.
14-04-2013 18:53 #27
It's like going back to the start of TTC all over again - when we didn't fall in the first few months, it got harder and harder to say it to him each month.
Then after 18 months we started Clomid and 6 months later still no luck.
I try to tell myself, and him, that perfection takes time! He knows I'm a very picky person so we kinda started to joke about it and now he'll say something silly like "I sent some good soldiers in there tonight babe" and I say something equally silly like "well they've gotta make it through basic training to even consider setting up command stations in my uterus".
OMG that just sounds really dumb..... but i think the "sillier" we are about it - the easier it gets to take the news.
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15-04-2013 12:10 #28Senior Member
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Hey girls, I don't really have any suggestions cos we fell on our 2nd try with dd, but I reckon a bit of humour would help. I have a feeling it might take longer to conceive this time so will keep ur suggestions in mind. Hope none of you have to wait any longer for your bfps
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16-04-2013 05:16 #29
Well CD30, no AF & a BFN. Looks like I have to deliver sad news to DH again : (
16-04-2013 05:58 #30
It's not over until AF arrives! Some people don't get a BFP until they are a few days overdue for AF. I have my fx for you.
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